I don’t know how to network and maintain connections. I have been working in this industry for 15 years, I always get positive reviews about my work and how I show up as an employee, but I still cant seem to maintain connections when I move on from one role to another. I am chronically ill, and so I often don’t have the stamina to do an 8-10 hour workday and then also do happy hour or other social things after work. Im now four months into a layoff and realizing how incredibly isolated I am.

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

People keep telling me this is the kind of job market where you have to lean on your connections, and I just dont know where to start. I dont feel like I have connections, no one who is curious how im doing and wanting to help. Is anyone else trying to navigate this dynamic in their job search? I feel so defeated and alone.

Truly appreciate the thoughtful advice.

Related Posts

Hi all,

I have one question -coming 2023 year maybe recession hit worldwide economy. Can we worried as a accenture employee? Any news for mass layoff for recession?

like

Heya guys, actively looking for a senior/staff optical engineering position if anyone knows of anything let me know 😬

like

Where are there openings for a lead strategist / head of strategy at the moment? Not asking for a friend.

like

Are there any role and responsibility differences between being an full time ACD and a freelance ACD?

like

Hello everyone, I am CA looking to start a fresh innings in Management Consulting role at a Business Consulting Firm as a fresher. Can you please suggest me some good books to read on management consulting to begin with? It will be of great help

like

Looking for a referral! First switch from TCS

Yoe: 3.9

Skillset: python, shell scripting, linux, hadoop ecosystem (hive, yarn, HDFS, solr/kafka, scala, map/reduce, Cloudera manager, oozie) datadog, cymatics, nomad, consul, teamcity, jenkins, Git, ansible, Docker. Rest API's

I think with with skillset, i might fall into DevOps category. But still any challenging role is accepted😎

like

Anyone know if any of the MBBs are hiring experienced hires in India?

like
like

Anyone from Amazon India Finance division? Looking for an employee referral.

like
like

What is the salary range that Salesforce offers for SFMC consulant role?

like

Anyone switch from consulting to commercial operations manager or above industry and have a general outlook on salary for such role?

like
like

Can somebody tells ne about their interview experience in Adobe for MTS2 role?
What kind of questions were asked?
How many rounds wete there?
Do they focus on system design as well for MTS2 role?

like

Hello guys what is the role of Java r&d department in bosch

like
like

Hi guys I work in One of GCP partnered org. My role sr SQL developer I resigned the current job GOT ROLE in FICO child org as a solution integration consultant role -(AWS,PENTAHO ,SQL we will be using ) -offered CTC 25 fixed + 1L JB + 2.5 BONUS + 0.5 L WFH SETUP = total 29LPA if everything will go smoothly ( bonus vary with comp growth it can be between 1.8L to 2.5l .so final CTC will get down to 28LPA as well - Bangalore but WFH ).Current org retain with 25L +2 LP VARIABLE HYDERABAD COMPANY

like

Did someone get fired in the new manager training in Orlando after getting drunk?

like

Any advice for a 3rd year risk assurance associate looking to break into a consulting role? I feel like I don’t quite have the tech experience (knowledge of SQL, Java, etc. ) and i don’t quite have the accounting knowledge being that we’re in IT. . Anyone make the switch ? What advice would you give ? Anything I should try to learn now or any transferable skills you leveraged? Anything would help!

likesmart

Had a fight with my MD or let's say more like argument. After that the next 2 months was endless nitpicking and pulling me for mistakes that aren't really in my control.

Post 3 months, I apply for a transfer. Transfer process delayed for some process reasons
No negatives/issues in my f22 feedback. Utilization above target. Way Above average
Recently fired without reason
Who should I escalate to?

PS: Ignore typos. Written in anger

like

More Posts

Amazon India I am working in Amazon India, I applied for an IJP where my hiring manager selected me for the role but my current manager is not ready to release me. Can someone please suggest what should I do

like

No hike like last year ?!

likesmart

Watch aficionados - Any suggestions for women’s watches (or unisex) 1-2K? Have been eyeing Nomos but love rose gold and price point for nomos rose gold is significantly higher

Same BB58 dude that just posted...Looking to get a Hamilton khaki field mechanical...but can’t seem to pick between white or black dial...also a bit torn if I should get the field mechanical or the Field King vs Murph (as these are a bit dressier)....would be dope to get some thoughts?

like

Does anyone want a 2 tone Sky Dweller on Jubilee, black face? I got an allocation from my AD and don’t want to upset them by saying no. Deal would be at msrp + tax.

Post Photo
like

Does anyone else here have a hospitality management degree? Do you think it was worth it?

like

What salary to expect at a Director level at PwC in Saudi Arabia? I am a brit with over 15 years experience in transformation consulting, and never worked in the ME!

like

I am looking for some inspiration. If you were selecting the location for an office for 100 consultants in Zone 1. Where would you choose and why?

like
like

Wednesday Wordle 410 5/6

⬛🟩🟩⬛⬛
⬛🟩🟩⬛🟩
⬛🟩🟩🟩🟩
⬛🟩🟩🟩🟩
🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩

like

How to register for nxttrans for transport

like

Great food recommendations in Madrid? Preferably not super pricy

like

6’5 here, does anyone have any recommendations on a good desk that is adjustable to a standing desk? I find that a lot of standing desks have a listed max height below 6’5

Can anyone explain the Chubb underwriting associate training? Is it in person or hybrid? Interview process? Looking to make a transition from education.

like

Need suggestions: A newbie in ERP, Want to push for a cert to be specialized, but unsure which one to pursue that is worth the money and time:
Oracle, SAP, Salesforce, Workday

Please explain why whichever system suggested is the best choice!

likehelpful

Anyone who’s moved from MBBD to Google Strategy & Operations roles, what’s your experience been like? How are the people and culture in gTech?

likeupliftinghelpful

Hey guys I’ve 3 years of US Government consulting experience in Data Analytics and reporting for decision making and I have to move Canada because of personal reasons.

Can anyone help me out with landing an opportunity? I’ve Canadian Permanent Residency.

like

Any book recommendations for grieving the death of an estranged parent?

like

If I was told that upper management was really interested in interviewing and that they would be reaching out soon - when should I reach out? They told me Monday morning and I haven’t heard back since

Additional Posts in Designers

What are actionable items one should strive for when trying to grow as a designer after landing their first role? I hear a lot about ways to grow to land the first job but very little about how to improve after you know the basics.

like

UI designers everywhere: Please stop making “peek-a-boo-only” interfaces.

likefunny

I’m a graphic designer interviewing with a company. Is it normal to ask a potential candidate to redesign a 10 page brochure for their interview test? If not, any suggestions on how to proceed?

like

Has anyone built an emergent learning group in your consultancy or company that focuses on reflection, feedback, problems of practice... But amongst designers staffed on different projects/clients? How did you structure it? How did you maintain it?

like
like

Looking for recommendations for high-quality, high-volume print vendors? (120,000+ direct mailers) Any help would be appreciated.

My company is offering to pay for external learning (ie conferences, certifications, training etc) and I’m interested in growing my knowledge in branding. Are there any courses out there that y’all recommend?

like

Start up experience help! How much do you charge for taking on the entire UX of a startup companies’ app design?
Would you take a set amount of money or equity? Any experience here would help!

like

How can one transition from a Visual/graphic designer in marketing to a product designer? And what’s it like being a product designer w a visual design background? Will you completely leave behind the graphic design world or are you still wearing many hats and still fulfilling that design and creative buzz? What courses, or resources do you have to make that jump? Can my portfolio have made up projects for this? I feel like I’m starting all over in design school! Haha.

likehelpfulfunny

Is anybody using WACOM CINTIQ Pro 24"? I am contemplating getting one but wondering if I will be able to use a mouse/tablet along with it. I heavily use InDesign and wonder if I can use a mouse/tablet when I need to without unplugging it. Thanks in advance!

like

Any packaging designer available for a small gig? Not agency project, helping a friend’s start up.

like

Is $90k - $100k a reasonable salary range for a senior visual designer with 9 years of experience at a tech company? I’m seeing a lot of varying numbers, and trying to consider inflation as a possibility.

Do you like humor incorporated into resumes? Why or why not?

like

How many different projects would you show in your book? I’m redoing my portfolio and find it so hard to know what should make the cut...

like

Hi! What's the entry level UX designer job pay range realistically? Just trying to gauge a general range (I understand factors such as location play into it big time)

like

Interviewing at a few startups so I can stay in Europe. Whats a few red flags i should look out for?

like

Just want to say this is such a thoughtful bowl. Great responses, lots of questions on self improvement, sharing of resources. Love UX guys #empathy

like

Finally saved up enough $ to buy my first Wacom! Does anyone have tips on how to get used to using it? Or any good resources for inspiration /walk-thrus for drawing illustrations. I really want to dive into creating but need help pushing thru the learning curve

like

Anyone made a switch to health tech companies? Do you like it?

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal