I don’t want to write my own vows and read them in front of everyone. I’m looking for more modern vows that we can just repeat from our officiant that aren’t the “to have and to hold” traditional ones. Any recommendations?

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Chat gpt lol. I also feel the same way and we’re doing a private vow and then standard versions!

Ask your officiant if they have a standard set they use. We had a religious ceremony which had specific ones for us to repeat. We shared our actual vows privately a couple months before the wedding.

Thank you. Our officiant is actually my boss so she doesn’t have any she uses in particular. I’m leaning towards doing our vows during our first look and just some quick ones for the ceremony.

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Oh wow! Really? That's actually great.

You can try ChatGPT. You can even find some drafts online. Good luck!

Have you tried asking your officiant if they use a standard set? Some of them have. You can save some time browsing online.

I feel the same way. I might even use a standard version. Lol

I don't want to write as well. I still have more time to decide on what to do. Hope everything goes well.

Hi here! I just launched my vows writing service www.perfectvows.co - or actually a modern take on what I believe the vows writing experience should feel like. I'm currently offering a few free sets in exchange for feedback.
I'd love to get your thoughts and work with you 🙂

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