I hate my job. So much it’s making me hate my life. I’m so depressed. There’s to many people making decisions and get mad when you don’t do something bc a certain waaay plus I’ve been bullied 3wks after I started. I’ve had to get onto 2 different anxiety and antidepressants meds bc of this job and my living situation.

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I'm sorry. I know this feeling all too well. It's suffocating feeling like you're stuck in a toxic environment for lack of any better options. I wish I had a solution for you, but all I can offer is good luck on the job search. I really hope you can get out of there soon.

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I too know exactly how you feel. I am currently having the same feeling of hating where I work and dread going everyday. In my mind, I quit every day. I want to walk out of there everyday but I know that I can't afford to do that without another job secured. I have been applying and interviewing but have yet to receive an offer, it's really hard out in the job world but I refuse to give up.

Not everyone at your job is going to be your friend. You teach people how to treat you so if you are being disrepected "bullied" then talk directly, calmly and to the point with the person doing this AND have your supervisor present. That being said, if this job really IS the cause of your hating life, being medicated etc then you obviously need to leave it. Sooner rather than later. But you also mentioned your living situation - that is also something only you can change. It sounds like you have stress from all sides, start w/what you can do TODAY to get away from the job and the living situation. NO job, NO other person is worth what you are putting yourself through.

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I am so sorry to hear that. I have definitely been there, so I know how big of a toll it takes on your mental health. It sounds like it is time to start looking for something else. You have to take care of yourself and your mental health

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I am but nothing has called!! Plus I’m scared it’s gonna be the same anywhere else bc it usually is or worse.

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Keep the job. It's nearly impossible to find a job out here and I have 30 years experience in some very complicated stuff, and I have a College degree. Life means doing things you don't like... living means feeling discomfort sometimes.... not trying to be rude, life is tough and sometimes you gotta do things you don't want to do to survive. We can't be "comfortable" all the time. Work-life-balance is all really in how you handle what you have.

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To add to the post bc I ran out of characters…

I can’t find another job where I love plus I know anywhere I go in the healthcare industry is gonna be just as bad. I would love a remote position but that’s likely impossible. I hate coming to my job but staying for the day is literally bringing me to tears.

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Look for a new job and once you have the official start date and signed paperwork, stop showing up to the job you were bullied at.

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I may get a doctors not for a week off or something.what do y'all think?

I’m so sorry that your experience has not been the best. I think you should take some time for yourself and perhaps should talk with your manager to see what options there are. And if you are getting bullied I would raise that concern too

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