I have my frozen embryo transfer next month. I just got my “schedule”. Coming in day 2 and day 12, again day16 and a few other days here and there. All I could think about was how in the world am I...

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In the same boat. But honestly I just said this is the priority full stop. So I plan ahead as much as possible but if I have to, I call in sick last minute, apologize and ask a team member to cover. As my friend told me, when you’re at the kid’s high school graduation you’re not going to be regretting that client meeting you missed.

Good luck with the transfer!

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I talked to my manager. I found it so much easier when someone knew what was going on

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Cont’d: ...going to manage this work schedule as I travel. And I’m on an intense, client needy project. I have to take progesterone shots in there for like 60days. How did you guys deal? I just can’t even imagine doing this as a consultant and I’m extremely worried. Advice?

Agreed my senior manager knows everything and is so supportive, says to take time whenever I need it and actually went through fertility treatment herself 6 years ago.

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