I just started on a new team (about 4 months in) and every time a challenge or problem comes up, my manager has a breakdown. He yells & gets angry, should I request finding another team or reach out to HR?

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Yes def report to HR

Is this behavior exclusively towards you or does he behave this way with the entire team?

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