I just switched practice groups a few months ago, having left a particularly toxic very senior partner who heavily relied on me for all kinds of things yet who ruined BD opportunities because they only wanted me to work for them. Just found out that she may have lost a fairly major client because she didn’t handle a pretty significant matter for them correctly and it would have been my problem had I not left. Karma is real.

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Validation you did the right thing! Onward!

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As for the toxic, they required me to send them my entire schedule (meetings; assignments from others; appointments during the workday) on a weekly basis so they knew where I was at all times even though they had access to my calendar. When I would let them know about a business development event, they would create fake deadlines that would impact my ability to attend or make me stay up till early hours in the morning to get it all done. Mind you, I never once missed a deadline for this person and always turned things in early. They would monitor my teams bubble to see if I was “green.” They wouldn’t read any of my emails / summaries, and always ask a million questions that were answered in the email. If I was on a call for another matter or away from my computer, they would call 3-4 times within 30 seconds of each other and then send an email to “call me back ASAP” and then not actually have any kind of real emergency.

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This is amazingly toxic. Glad that you left.

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What made her toxic?

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Love this

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Now time to sign that client for yourself!!

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Tell us more about how she was toxic

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