I met one girl on JS she seems like good match for me as we met facetoface and our vibe is also matching but only the issue is my parents are not ready to accept her coz she looks little darker than me i am fair compared to her.
What should i do here ? Pls advice TIA

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If you feel everything else is matching and she is fine for you, convince your parents about it.

It is your responsibility to make them realise that it's not always about how the outer skin and looks. Beauty will fade in some years but character will remain permanent.

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Considering present generation and situations, men have very limited good options left. If you think the girl has the same vibe and taste as you and you think you both can sustain together (may be try some more meetups with her you’ll know better). Then convince your parents. Anyhow beauty will fade with age!

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Bro just tell fair girl does not guarantee good life after marriage.It is important to leave peacefully rather than showing to society that you have fair wife.

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True, parents don't allow to marry dark girls

Even most men look for a bit fair girl only

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Are you female?

I am not looking for that fair, it just that if I see the girl he should like her and if we both stand together, so we our Jodi would look good

Even women want that his man shouldl like her physically

Later other emotions and other things comes in to picture

And make sure your parents treat her reasonably well post marriage in case you happen to marry her otherwise it would tum out to be a disaster.

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Dude get her skin lightening treatment. It will cost you a bit but the results will be good.
If you have a preference for fair and don’t wanna take care of her costs to fix it then don’t go ahead. Else at night she will look even darker after marriage and you will be sad sad for life.

It's fascinating how you're in IT but struggling with basic human decency.May be try updating your empathy software - it seems your current version is severely outdated.

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I would suggest don’t marry right now
Condition are very bad in india
Just move to another country and then marry

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