I realized recently that I can turn my “super associate” persona at any time. I had it off during covid when my kids needed me and got a bad review. So now it’s back on. I’m responding to midnight emails (and daytime ones in under 20 minutes) and getting work done the same morning. I’m spending countless hours doing edits over edits. I actually don’t like super associate. Why do people live like this 24/7?!? 🤔

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You have to set your boundaries and it starts with being OK with not having the greatest review up front because they are going to notice a difference in you not kissing ass 24/7. However, once you show that you still do good work and can have boundaries it will become the new norm. If it doesn't, leave. The market is great right now and we need to learn to take care of ourselves over the firm that no doubt will go on being fine with or without you.

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Agree and I have done this also

This is like James Harden in Huston verses James Harden in Brooklyn.

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We’ve all had that phase.

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How do you turn it off? Every time I try I get panicky over shirking my responsibilities.

well, when you have little pieces of you that are begging for your attention your priorities change real quick. I know how to make money and the law isn’t the only way. If I can’t be there for them and do this job, this job loses 10 times out of 10.

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