I still struggle with networking. In my position, I’m involved in a number of task forces which often have social events so the team can meet and get to know each other in person. These events often take place in crowded places and I am so anxious and focused on masking that I can’t remember people’s names and I’m afraid I come across closed off as a result. Anyone have any tips for navigating these?

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I am terrible at remembering names. So, I don’t spend a ton of time trying to remember names until we have connected a bit further to the point that hopefully I can attach some meaning to the name. Then, I will say “I apologize. What did you say your name was again?”

Networking can feel very intimidating, but try not to focus on yourself. Think of it as your job is to learn about other people there. By asking them questions they will ask you questions in exchange. That is how you get your information out there.

Don’t assume you will professionally connect with everyone. No one’s that good at networking. Focus on finding a few people you think are interesting. That will help keep you from feeling so overwhelmed by the number of people.

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