I wouldn't trade him for the world, but I regret not sleeping with more women before meeting my husband

Do you go see your parents when they are getting surgery?
I've never been afraid of surgery before and my dad's had a bunch (from military). He lives a few states away but I usually get to see him quite often. He's only in his 40s and my mom is with him. The surgery he's about to have is considered high risk. I'm not worried or anything, but it's it customary to go see them when they're having a major surgery? He'll be in-patient for at least a week. Sounds I go after and help my mom? WWYD?

Okay newly single and struggling to meet women. I've tried tinder but it never goes anywhere. Lesbian 🐠 any advice?

Ideas for 2 year anniversary with my gf? Want something more than just a dinner

My GF has trouble standing up for herself. She's on client travel and one of her co-workers made her really upset (very uncalled for and should have never happened). She called me crying. After consoling her I told her that she needs to go to her manager and possibly HR (yes it's to that level).
She told me she can't and she's not that person (she thinks she'll get the other person fired). She knows that she should and hates that she doesn't stand up for herself. What can I do to help?

Are dudes expected to carry the conversation on dating apps? Or is it just me?

Need advice pls . Been working in call center customer service for the past 15 years , since 2007. I work remotely .I really do love it . It’s convenient when you have young children. I just feel stuck , don’t have much education besides my high school diploma. How can I further my career and make more money in this field but not be stuck answering phone calls . All suggestions are very much appreciated

I have been surprised with the number of student mothers who tell me I am the only positive male role model in their student's life. It is humbling.

Men in their 40s who are open to dating women in their 20s are a gigantic flaming red flag

Spouse is a state department employee and currently overseas. I’m a manager with three years of experience in consulting and 8 years of experience in the military where I left as a O-3 (GS-12 equivalent). SO wants me to take a non-negotiable family member hire role at the embassy overseas for one year so we can co-locate. Job sounds interesting, but is a non-negotiable GS-6 equivalent. Family life would be great but am I derailing my career permanently? Can I explain this in the future?

Top 3 relationship must have’s. GO!

Hi Everyone
I am planning to do a short bike ride today evening to Lonavala
Any F interested to accompany me?

Does anyone have information about the role of a mediator? I’m trying to find valuable information online about what it’s like and what it takes to become a mediator of any kind and there’s so much space trash out there. Whether it’s in divorce or conflict management or elsewhere, I’m just seeking perspective. Any insight or connections would be appreciated!

Made a comment about a specific city being good to raise kids in bc of accessibility to good schools/colleges, and SO freaked out because he thinks I’m trying to keep him in one spot (both of work in this city, my family is here and his is not). He thinks I’m trying to stay close to my family and isolate him from his, which is not my intention at all. Told me it was a big red flag and he hasn’t talked to me since. What should I do?

Do you love your SO? Or is it just convenience?

Why is the ROI in online dating so miserably low?

does anyone have recommendations for first date ideas around the LA area? 🙏 (trying to stay away from crowds and social distance too)

What are the best places to live in Dubai when moving with your family with a school going kid. This is for someone making 40-45k per month and want to balance in terms of not breaking the bank by choosing luxury but also live a comfortable and good life.

hi - new to this bowl. I want to make sure I’m not being irrational or dramatic lol.

My boyfriend forgot my upcoming birthday. He scheduled a pick-up hockey game on that day and when I asked him about it, he said it was important to him to play hockey with his friends and we could celebrate my birthday a different day. for context, we’ve been dating for over a year and he knows how important celebrating is to me. im pretty close to ending it... thoughts?

Confession: I automatically assume most people I meet are just nice idiots until proven otherwise.

Graduated law school, passed the bar, and started my job last summer. My wife and I got pregnant with our first sooner than we expected, and we're due in June. Any general tips/advice?

Have a technical engineering background, and have been in a functional role for past year or so. Will it be difficult to go into a more technical role? My fear is exiting with no true hard skills

I’m in asset management sales and keen to accelerate my learning in alternatives (private equity, private debt, real assets, liquid and semi-liquid alternatives) so I can have more productive discussions with clients. 1) What are some good news platforms to stay updated on alternatives space in Asia? 2) Besides CAIA, any educational platforms to learn more about alternatives?

which company is good to join Atos syntel or TCG digital?
If the CTC and designation is same.

Is the one time wfh allowance higher than 18.5k now?

Hey fishes,

What is the salary for java full stack in bny mellon, pune for 4 years of experience?
Also how is the work life balance there?

Curious to hear from NYC Metro-based 🐠 who got married in the area - what was your experience deciding between a NYC wedding vs. outside the city wedding (like NJ) in terms of options, cost/value, etc.? In case helpful, likely looking at 150-180 guest list

I live in FL and my AC has an internal leak, landlord refuses to replace it anytime soon. Electric bills are now $300 for an apartment. He isn't doing anything about his aside from coming to the unit to see the issue himself. What type of recourse can I get this is insane.

Mint chocolate chip ice cream and bourbon on the rocks might be the best dessert pairing of all time.

People who have interviewed with google in the past but did not get an offer. Did google recruiters ever reach out to you afterwards? I’m in a situation where I already accepted an offer from another company and google came back saying I passed to the last interview round. Even though google is my dream/end goal job, I decided to walk away from the opportunity. I was wonder if anyone ever got contacted by the recruiters later on after failing/withdrawing the interviews?

Has anyone used a resume writer? Worth it?

Hi 🐠!
Is there any companies that hire for data science internship and offer visa sponsorship?
Thanks.

Any OpenText'ers in this bowl??

Went to my first BJJ class last night. Broken but already addicted.

Can someone give me 1 bhk Apartment (or specific locations) recommendations for a couple. Preferably within 1-5 mile radius of UT Dallas. Budget under $1300

Any SAP IBP opportunities in Canada?

Hey hey you old fogies 😂

Wise confessions bowl turned out to be a feel good bowl. ♥️♥️

I just discovered that scheduling a call for 7 am the morning after a boozy team event is the best way to get easy agreement and consensus. No debating for the sake of debating when everyone is sleepy! 😂

Who’s up but who’s checking their work email 😆

Everytime I see this bowl name. I read it as wife confessions and keep getting scared.

How's everyone's back and knees doing

Why do partners feel the need to speak when they obviously have very superficial knowledge about the topic? So exhausting pushing back on stupid ideas, needless analysis, unnecessary credit taking attempts and spending time making their input sound coherent with what was already aligned with client. Let me manage and please just get out of the way…

I feel part of a clique (the cool kind).

What up friendzz. Let’s get confessinnn

What happened to all my badges?

Hello fellow olds!! I was just at a work dinner and HH. Three drinks and food and weeeee! Damn. Such a lightweight now! 😂 Hope you all are enjoying the night. 😘

This bowl fell off. Typical 35+ behavior 🤭😄

My husband quit his very well-paying job in February to become a freelancer. I was fully supportive of this move because he was miserable at his job. He is hustling and trying to find work but it is slow. We are depleting our savings and I am stressed about our financial health and feel like retirement is getting pushed further out. I am struggling not to feel resentful. I don’t want to push him back into a career he hates but also feel like part of being an adult is making hard decisions.

I could be watching the man burn right now but I was too jaded to get up there this year.

Hi! Hows the new wk going??? Anything exciting?