IBers in long term relationships - what are some tips for your partners or things your partners do that make your relationship work / life easier given the demanding nature of your job? In a LTR and partner just moved into IB. We are both still adapting to how demanding it is so just looking for some wise words from the crew here. TIA!

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Harsh truth here - I left IB for M&A consulting for better WLB, which I have now by getting onto more post deal work. But back in IB days (Canadian bank) I had to beg my then gf (now wife) to tolerate the demands from my job, she played along but it was totally not easy. My life outside of work was only about spending time with her, no boys night out no video games no time for whatever hobby I had, I knew she’d be mad if after a 80 hour work week I was to tell her I wanted to be with myself and be left alone (which men/women sometimes need)

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