I'm 28 and my hair is graying . . .

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You still have hair?

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Down there or up there?

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Wut?

Welcome to the club. Early 30s and graying fast

I found my first gray at 28

Starting to wonder if our parents were lying about when they started going gray. I started around 28 too

Yeah it could be so much worse. My college roommate lost most of his hair before he graduated at 22.

Im 29 and have more grays than my grandmother it’s horrific!! They say presidents age quick—talk about associate attorneys 🤦🏼‍♀️

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