I'm a midlevel who works closely with a first-year associate (a white male) I really like. We've noticed that opposing counsel often directs questions to him, calls him, or emails him without cc'ing me, even though I'm the lead. He always loops me back in and corrects them. This only happens with people outside our firm. Has anyone else experienced this?

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Never had that happen. Am Asian male so I wonder if it's a gender thing on top of a minority thing? It is pretty obvious after 1, maybe 2, calls who is running deals so this really shouldn't happen. Plus it's just bad form not to cc the working group.

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Consider looping in their partner next time and saying something like “As I’ve requested, please keep me copied. We would like to keep this deal moving forward efficiently. Thank you.

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It's just to get under your skin. Lawyers are petty.

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I would advise him on no uncertain terms that he deal with me and copy the first year.

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