I'm a new midlevel lateral at a firm. There's another person of my affinity group (this person is a partner) in a different office but the same practice group and attended the same law school as me. I want to reach out and introduce myself to them, but I don't want to be weird or cringe. Any advice on how to do this?

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Don’t overthink it. Send an email and ask if they’d be open to a zoom coffee - be sure to mention what you have in common.

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