I’m really depressed because my extended family cut me off and they’ve cut off my sister and parents and I wish we could get together but holidays just make my heart so sad cause I wish I could just meet them and get to know the kids and connect. Holidays have become very triggering. I wish we could all have a cookout together and just hang out.

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This may not be a consolation but, having been in a similar position for a couple of decades now, the pain will lessen. Your immediate family will become stronger and tighter in spite of this. You will also meet new family, not by blood but by bond nonetheless and, one day you’ll realize that they miss you a whole helluva lot more than you miss them.

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