I have been at my job for 6 years. I’m upset about how our pay raise went and I’m thinking about looking for a new job. The anxiety is overwhelming when it comes to this. Different routine, different people, the thought of messing up, what if I hate it. I am comfortable where I’m at, but feel as though they did us aides wrong when it comes to pay. I’m very overwhelmed right now.

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Change is going to happen regardless of how hard we try to be the same. What this is about is control and comfort. If you make a change understand you will find new routines. Maybe better ones.

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I’m the same way. I’ve been in my company for 5 years, and I’ve recently decided it’s time to move on - I don’t see a long-term future in my current company (KPMG) as the hours are extremely demanding and things just don’t get better. But the idea of interviewing is so overwhelming, since I haven’t done it in so long.

I’ve toyed with the idea of leaving for years, but I think it’s “for real” this time. The thought of staying is finally scarier than the thought of leaving.

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