I’m the only Dad on my team. Last night we had to work till 8. Not because we were swamped. But because the entire team just felt like goofing off for two hours instead of getting the work done....

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A CEO once told me, “You teach people when you are available. X always works out at lunch, and they know I leave at 5 to see my kids and if we’re busy I’ll be back on line after they’re in bed.” I know it sucks for it to be on you to set boundaries but I think that might be the only way.

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@CW1 that's Oprah's line, "you teach people how to treat you." Words to live by. I like that scenario you outlined. Will try it.

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Ive had exactly the opposite. Single and want a life, but the dads don’t want to go home to kids/wife.

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I have no advice. I just want to say that it’s funny to hear a dad saying what I, a mom, have been saying my whole career. 👍

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As a single it's annoying when you get stink eye for wanting to leave at 6. As in, what have you got going that you can't stay? Feel like inventing a family so I will have an excuse for leaving on time.

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@CW1 I need to learn how to do that. Thanks for your comment.

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You do you @Copywriter 1 has it right. They’ll learn

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@CD 1 Ew it’s not the 80s anymore you should only get married/have children if you really want that.... nobody is pressuring people to live domestically these days.

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