I’m trying to switch offices to be in the same city as my boyfriend. Current office doesn’t want to let me go but the other office really wants me. Any tips to push this along?

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You need to be pulled rather than pushed. Talk to someone in the office you are going to and make them want you on the team. Then have the new office work to pull you in. Pulling is faster because there is no conflict of interest for the team that is talking to HR.

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Good luck! Life is too short! I ‘pulled' my man to my city and we are now so much happier not having to deal with a long-distance relationship.

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That makes so much sense. Thank you!

Same problem here at EY

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