Brought my gf sushi take out to her house when she got off of work. She didn't like the meal I got her and started to eat the roll i got for myself. She noticed I wasn't eating so I told her I ate before rather than tell her she was actually eating my dinner. She's now mad at me that I "lied" even though I did it so she wouldn't be embarrassed. Who's in the wrong

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Both of you for making this an issue in the first place

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Just be honest with her in the future. This is such a non issue.

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I didn't think it was that big a deal. You started eating what I ordered for myself since you didn't like your meal. I could have embarrassed you but I fibbed ... Not sure why she blew up about this

You guys 15 or something?

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You for getting a meal for her that apparently either of you found appetizing

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You guys aren’t kids are you? Grown adults? I mean if something so petty is a serious issue I don’t know how you guys have managed to stay together.

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PS we're still not talking. She's just as stubborn as I am.

Buddy, run - this is some pretty manipulative behavior. This episode is a blessing in disguise.

It’s weird that she ate food that your bought for yourself. Unless she had no idea that you had a preference/that one was “yours”??

Just eat her meal. Lol

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