How to politely tell my partner stop spending too much time on playing video games? It was my false at first. I introduced Zelda breathe of the wild to her and now, she is hooked. She even played game when we had the movie night. I chose the her movie style but she let me to watch it alone and silently turned on the game, and played it while pretended to watch the movie with me. That’s not fun at all. What should I do? Any advice please?

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Here's the thing - you don't get to tell your partner what to do. You can ask and tell them how important quality time is to you.

But at the end of the day they might decide not to, and you have to decide if that's a deal breaker for you.

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Agree^

Take away the game boy?

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Find a multiplayer game you both like n get it in! Lol

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Take the opportunity for some role playing…..tell her she’s a naughty girl, take her game boy away and then let your imagination run wild.

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This is funny. My wife sometimes plays on it for the entire weekend. I don’t bother anymore

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Accept them. I accepted my husband 🤷‍♀️

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