Have you ever been or currently in a relationship with someone of who’s political beliefs conflict with your own?

Not dealing with this currently have dealt with it in the past. My parents started out opposites but now believe similarly. I’m wondering if it is possible in this day and age.

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Regardless of anyone’s beliefs people should be just be respectful🤷🏻‍♀️

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That would be nice. Sometimes it seems like that doesn’t happen much anymore though.

I’m dating a guy who doesn’t believe in god, nor does his parents. I, however, do believe in god and they make fun of Christian’s when I’m around and say nasty things, roll their eyes etc. it’s caused a lot of resentment from me

I can see how that would cause issues. Especially if your faith is important to you.

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