is it weird to date a 21 year old guy if i’m a 24 year old girl?

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No. The sacred rule is half plus 7. You’re good all the way down to 19.

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Worldwide average life expectancy shows women have 4 more years. So perfect timing to complete life together.

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No, just know he will not be ready for a serious relationship or be experienced enough😉. This is from experience

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While this is probably likely, I don’t think you should rule out someone you like based on a blanket stereotype like this

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Nope. My wife was 29 and I was 23 when we got married. All depends on his maturity and what you both want out of the relationship 🙂

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Hello Ms. Robinson

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22 year old guy dating a 25 year old girl and we make jokes about it and stuff, but we’re both so so happy 🤗 age is only a number

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If you’re compatible on a maturity level, and both want the same things right now, absolutely not. You’re still 24, so shouldn’t have to be thinking about your whole “future” with this guy, aka marriage/kids.

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At 29, I dated a 25 year old guy. He also made a boat load more money than I did. Dated for 3.5 years.

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No

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If he is still in college it may be a harder time to relate since you have started your career

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Well here’s an update. I decided to give it a go and he ended up showing his age and is playing emotional games 🥴😑

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Sorry to hear that! Hopefully the next guy you meet won’t play games

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My parents neighbor is 80+ and his wife is 40. 3 years doesn’t even register.

Oh yeah. They have been together 20 years. It’s complicated. She is really a nice woman. Sat next to her a dinner a few times. So don’t over stereo type personality but yeah Bentley’s roll around.

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No

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