It’s such a turnoff for me when my husband has an attitude and sulks all day. Always gives me teenage girl vibes but I try to remind myself that being sensitive isn’t gender specific and it’s okay for him to pout if he’s upset about something. Just wish I didn’t get the ick when he does

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Next time he does that just say “listen Nancy, I don’t have time for this garbage. Go put your big boy pants on and grow up or I’ll leave you for a real man.”

That should solve your problem 👍

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Women: men should be empowered to feel and show more emotions

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But pouting and sulking aren't really emotions in and of themselves. They're bad ways of conveying "I'm having some kind of emotion" but don't actually do anything to address it or resolve the problem.

For the record, the men in romance novels are NOTORIOUSLY bad at expressing emotions - they are described as "brooding", "stoic", etc. and regularly overreact enormously. That's not the point.

There are days I just need to get away from my wife because talking about it will start a fight or I know will stay unresolved.

Sulking, I don't know, maybe it comes off that way. But most people criticize when I feel like I'm sacrificing something important to me and no one cares.

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What are you sacrificing?

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Is it something new to him?

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Does this happen when he is upset with you or in general?

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I will not even date a man if they are too intense about a sports team. In the case of football, for example, I will not sign up for a lifetime of sulky Sundays, Mondays, and Thursdays when their team loses..

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Yeah when my wife has a headache or sleepy for too many times, I sulk for sometime

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Getting no action is a big deal for guys

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Have you asked if he has a logical reason for how he feels?

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