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I am a 26 year old female earning a decent amount.
My parents made my account on Jeevansathi and Shaadi and every day they are bombarding me with rishtas asking me to have a telephonic conversation with some random guys. Have heard from many relatives that at first people are all nice and sweet and after marriage family and the guy show their real selves.
Need advice from folks here who have gone through the same process on how to spot such people and find the right

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I’m 30yr old male. My parents have also opened account for me on shaadi and JeevanSathi. They also ask me to talk to some girls. And even I get the same thoughts, what if she’s nice now and things go haywire post marriage.

This Fear is mutual !!

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