Just got asked off an account for defending the work too much. I’ve never felt prouder of myself. May the bridges I burn light my way.

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Fact: as a GCD I got asked off TGI Fridays for the same reason, my job was in question, but then we got into the PlayStation pitch and I was put on that. We won and I ran that account for 6 years.

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Oh my goodness I love this. I have had something similar happened to me in December. I projected a strong appearance but it knocked me down to be honest.
I WISH I had taken your approach with this mindset. 🔥🔥🔥

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I was asked off a major luxury car account a few years ago because my client thought a 3rd place podium finish in a race was the same as winning the race, and I told her she was wrong.

I still have that text convo on my phone, and I look at it for a giggle sometimes.

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How do you tell your employer?
Send an email and video chat?
Include a member from HR or just your boss?

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I was called into HR because a coworker overheard a conversation between me and another colleague taking about cable/streaming shows that we watched or recorded. I mentioned that I recorded a few true-crime shows. My colleague jokingly said, "I hope I'm not on your hit-list!". I replied, "Not anymore." HR pulled me in to say a coworker complained about me talking about hit-lists, and they were now scared. HR wouldn't say who complained, so do I have a right to ask about the resolution to this?

A coworker at non-work HH said something antisemtic to me. Do I talk to him about it or should I tell my manager and HR? I'm nervous about retaliation because I've experienced it before when reporting something to HR.

I’m a 1styear, and there’s one other junior associate of color in my group.
The partner I work for keeps calling me her name. For ex: my name is “Sara” and her name is “Jasmine”. Names not similar, we don’t look alike - but I suppose we are about the same complexion. I can’t help but think it’s because we’re the only two black juniors. I was granting her grace because my mom accidentally calls me my sisters name and stuff, I get that it happens. But now it’s becoming a microagression. Advice?

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We have a high paying client that texts us ( me the other associate and the partner) at a late hour - usually 3 a.m. the first time the client did it, the partner wasn’t on the thread so I told him about it and he said he’d talk to the client. Now the client is doing it again. It has once again disturbed my sleep and I can’t go back to sleep when I start my work day in 2 hours. I’m pissed. What should I do?

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We often hear about harassment from men in advertising, but what about women? There’s a Jewish woman at my job who considers us “curl friends” and is very touchy feely...

I’m managing a team of juniors. So I find when presenting our ideas I say we all thought of these as a team. But today someone seemed aggravated with it. For background I call out those key players in my one on ones with my manager but am I in the wrong by not doing it in the presentation? I’m new to managing and I’m still learning so I would love any advice when dealing with this type of situation.

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Any suggestions on how to address the upper management teams' racial biases? Like, I don’t think anyone on the team is openly racist, or at least they aren’t aware of it but I have been with this company for about two months now and I can tell the difference in the way POC are treated vs. the white employees. For context, the leadership team is made up of 12 men (all white), and two white females. So, yeah, not sure how to address this.

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My firm rarely fires associates right away and instead just stops giving them work until they literally have no work and then will fire them and say it’s because their hours aren’t good. How common is this and why do firms do it? It seems incredibly cowardly.

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Thoughts on office romances? This guy has been flirting with me non stop. Stopping by my desk, walking me to the train after work, asking me to lunch, taking my # etc) not sure how to proceed. Cont..

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I get it, women in engineering are a bit of a rarity. But it feels like my coworkers don't talk around me and it's really awkward. Sometimes I wish I could just blend in

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I need some advice. I am the chief science officer for a genetics company. The CEO recruited me with the intent of giving me ownership. He still hasn’t and it’s been a year. How can I approach this. He is very emotional but I also love what I don’t and see incredible potential

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I work in a firm of about 20 lawyers. In some depts staff are fantastic. In others, they are lazy, show zero initiative, don’t follow instructions, etc, so I waste my time doing admin tasks. Contd

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I will say this I love working with the students . I love getting to know them . I smile to myself when I go to work . I still feel this way after last week being asked my three different people about doing something where I told them that I was not going to do. following day I was then ambushed by admin (where I have never felt more like nothing. Following this encounter with people in charge I had an anxiety attack. This was terrible and I have no trust . TAs are mistreated. Similar story?

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Annoyed by the in-office barista trying to play my outfit by asking me if it’s summer already. Haven’t you ever heard of winter white?

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How do you tackle ignorant managers and favoritism in the team ?

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As a woman of color, I've been told I speak eloquently numerous times. Has anyone else experienced similar microaggressions in the office?

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Welcome to a community dedicated to supporting those who deal with or wish to learn more about micro-aggressions. Did you know that 72% of folks are bullied by their managers? 36% of folks end up quitting their job because of bullying.

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Looking at Penn State Smeal for EMBA going into supply chain. It's that or Darden and Defense Consulting.

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Hello Fishes,
Just a little weird question, suggestions will be helpful.
My cousin wants to enter into the IT industry but his graduation is from non Tech (B.A). So I have suggested him to persue and MBA in IT or MCA may be from distance learning will also help.
Please give suggestions which will be the most feasible way to enter the IT industry, given that he is financially not much sound but he is very smart and hardworking.
Is it possible to join some startup which don't have degree barrier?

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Does anyone have experience living in NEMA? My lease at Essex is expiring in the new year, and I was considering a move for the facilities (I’m on the hunt for a gym with a free-weight squat rack), but I’ve heard the staff is rude and unhelpful, especially to younger and non-white residents.

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I’m a conservative who sits quietly as superiors around me say they would never hire a Republican Nazi scum.

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Dear senior leadership - stop being yes men to clients and consult the folks actually doing the work to see if it’s feasible. *insert loud expletive*

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When are we going to stop letting incompetent people do panel talks? I smh every time...

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Tired of the concept of "storytelling." We all need to stop pretending we're "storytellers." Shonda Rhimes and JK Rowling we are NOT.

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Ever get the feeling that you don't know what you're doing or why you're doing it, but have no idea what else you would do for a living?

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