Always thought I was an introvert but maybe I’m just drained from a toxic job and haven’t met my type of people. Is that possible?

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Yes. Extroverts get massive energy from people, almost in an unlimited way. They're the ones at parties who stay til the end and beyond, with energy to spare. Introverts do also enjoy people, socializing too (a lot of people confuse an uncomfortable lack of social skills with being introverted) but they need to absolutely get away and recharge on the regular. If you're at a toxic job with toxic people, you'd suffer either way, so it's hard to tell. If I were you, I'd analyze my people-energy dynamics outside of the workplace over a good period of time for more accuracy. I will say though, extroverts tend to get energy even from people that are not "their types."

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Yes

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Yes, introverts and extraverts being set things isn’t real

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Working in a toxic environment made me an introvert. Slowly working my way back to normalcy.

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Same here

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