Just joined the bank a little over a month ago. My team lead is horrible at training and expects me to know everything. She doesn't provide clear direction (for example she told me to "follow the procedure" and dismissed me when I asked questions then got mad that a part of the process wasn't done. She didn't even include those steps but said I should've read in between the lines...
Should I leave the bank? Or should I wait and try to get out of this LOB?

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