My company has been restructured and I was recently promoted to Senior Director. I have a new department to oversee. My newest department is resistant to the restructuring. My bigger dilemma is one of my closest friends is one of the newly added team member who is not happy. I am now her bosses boss. How should I navigate this situation and excel professionally without losing a dear friend?

I keep explaining to my bf that if we get married, he'll be limited to what he can invest in. He refuses to tell me which stocks he invests in and said he'll invest in what he wants. What do I do?

Would you do a long distance relationship? Especially if there’s no plan to relocate and live in the same country in the near future?

I have a non-existent relationship with my dad & mom. It’s so hard trying to maneuver life without support 😢

Is anyone else hoping for an insane blizzard to hit mid-next week so they have an excuse not to drive downstate to spend Thanksgiving with their extended family? Some of my family's FB posts since last week's elections tell me it's going to be a long holiday weekend.

One of my friends has been given a choice, to work with an extremely outrageous target or to leave the firm. If he chooses to stay, he will be bound to serve a total time of 6 months. And if he refuses, tomorrow will be his last day, what can I suggest to him?

It's a critical decision and he is overwhelmed by this sudden obstacle. Any leads would be helpful.

I just pulled a muscle in my neck from crying at 3 in the afternoon on a random Wednesday

My whole sleep schedule is fucked up thanks to my husband the teacher, who can sleep in and “give out assignments” for like an hour

I felt like a walking zombie during thanksgiving, barely eating and barely talking. My family is small and I told them ahead of time my relationship ended. I focused on my niece and nephews, cried when I wanted to and slept from 8pm-noon for the last 5 days. Showered once or twice. That’s the best I could do and that’s OK right now. I’m back in my apartment, just trying to take it one day at a time, and not re read his texts too much. My birthday is Thursday 🙄

I’m going to lose my marriage if I stay in my current job.

I can’t quit because I’m the only income on the house.

I don’t have a new job yet.

Hard times.

I still think of my ex. It’s been 9 months since our breakup. He cheated on me and although I walked away and never looked back, I still wonder how life is treating him. I know I deserve better. Sigh.

Would you marry someone who can’t have kids?

My wife surprised me last night for my 30th bday (which was last week) with a get together with my closest friends I have known since middle school. Most of them live out of state with kids and somehow it all worked out. Feeling really loved.

It’s during this time of year that I’m reminded of how the word ‘no’ does not work with my beloved little kin who insist on climbing and trying to eat random inedible objects.

My wife and I are both terrible housekeepers and our clutter is overwhelming us. We have two kids under 3 and a wonderful nanny but we need more help at home. How do we throw money at this problem? Where do we start to get ongoing professional help decluttering, organizing, cleaning, etc.? What has worked for you?

Planning on telling my parents about my white boyfriend this weekend…. Any tips or words or motivational words please

Has anyone dealt with coming to terms with an emotionally abusive relationship? I struggle to admit this (because more drastic examples come to mind), but my therapist mentioned that things like yelling/throwing things/blocking me from leaving the room are also abusive traits my ex demonstrated. It makes me feel alienated from myself — like “how could I have allowed myself to be treated like that?”. Also feeling ashamed to tell anyone

Big Law Dads: How much time do you usually take off when your wife has a baby? And do you actually get to take off, or do you just end up working from home half the time? My wife is due Mid-December, and I’m staffed on 4 M&A deals trying to close by year end, so it’s not looking promising.

Any book recommendations to gift my cousin sister? She studied (masters) psychology and is a trained classical dancer.

Moms with three kids and on a reduced schedule: What is your reduced schedule, and does it work for you? If not, what would be your ideal schedule? Just had my third and not sure how things will work... two was manageable, but three feels difficult right now

Any tips for organizing a bedroom, closet, dresser & bathroom? My teen has IADHD, and low executive functioning. Her room looks like a land mine. Clean clothes are mixed in with dirty, her desk is a disaster, she won’t let go of clothes she’s outgrown, drawers are open with clothes hanging out. A therapist said to close her door if we don’t want to see it but it’s more than that. She needs this important life skill & I don’t know how to help. Easier to organize w/o her but that’s not a solution.

Hi Fishes……..requesting you help regarding the pay range for a Managed Services Consultant.
Also please let me know how much hike can I expect on the below
Current CTC-13.9
YOE-2.5 (15 months relevant work ex)
Btech+MBA

Moved to the GTA last year from Vancouver; and we have a BIG raccoon issue here. It’s pissing me off. Raccoons keep taking a dump on my porch. Tried everything to deter them away but been unsuccessful

Last year I moved internally from a
Paralegal level 11 w/ 14 yrs exp at
$100k base + up to 8% bonus to my
current role as compliance manager
level 9 at $123k base + up to 35%
bonus. I was above cap in my prior
role and now my range is up to $138k
base. I'm being recruited to my old
team as a level 10
Manager with
same base/bonus as now but since it's
a lower level I will cap out within a
year. I always found the legal work
more interesting but limited in career
growth. Not sure what to do.

What should be an ideal salary for 10 yrs experienced devops and cloudops engineer

Fellas, what’s your go to dating app? And what do you use it for? For example hook ups.

What’s your best advice for dealing with an insufferable manager? I’m being gaslit and micromanaged to wit’s end.

Hello Fishers

Can someone refer me for any of the following position in good Amsterdam based company providing visa sponsorship
- Senior to Lead DevOps Engineer
- Senior Site reliability Engineer
- Senior Platform Engineer
- Senior to Lead Cloud Engineer ( AWS)
- AWS DevOps Engineer
- Kubernetes DevOps Engineer
I have 7+ yrs of experience as DevOps SRE Engineer with tech stack: AWS, Docker, Kubernetes, Terraform, Jenkins, Gitlab, Linux, Python, Java

Notice period: 1 month

Anyone apply to clerkships after working at your firm for a while? Any advice? Currently a second year putting out applications

client has form agreements that they sent over asking us to review and “update”. Any advice on how to tackle this?

Why shoes do you wear for work? That are Comfy & look good

Anybody applied successfully for Sr.Business Process Consultant with SAP (North America)?
How was your experience?
What was the process?
How technical was the interview?

41F, just found/joined this bowl and the bowl picture is cracking me up 🤣🤣🤣

In weekend checked out VTP Peagusus project in Kharadi possession 2025. Project looks promising but when visited the site accept for the towers rest all be it roads or daily basis shops nothing is there yet but they say that till the time of possession roads and everything will be functional. The rate for 750 sqft carpet 2bhk they are giving for 74lacs and possession is 2023 May. Another 2025 possession 850 sqft carpet 2bhk for 79lacs.Hardly any difference in rate per sqft. Please suggest

Hi fishes,

Does the January promotions happen for some levels (eg. below consultant will receive it) or it depends on the partner to choose who will get promotions??