Would you do a long distance relationship? Especially if there’s no plan to relocate and live in the same country in the near future?

How do you guys take care of your parents back home . I am a single child living in USA . I don’t want to go back and it is getting tougher day by day .

Anyone know any good divorce lawyers in NYC?
Thanks in advance 🙇🏾‍♀️

Not sober currently. But think about it.
What happened to all your mates when you stopped? Did they dump you (because you make them feel guilty for drinking)? And what if your wife drinks too?

How do I deal with a parent who has become bitter and shrewd as they age? It’s exhausting and disheartening to be around because they used to be positive and happy. I’d like to help them be positive again but also want to give them space to feel how they feel. I just want them old version of my parent back 😞

If at all, how do you guys manage romantic relationships in IB? It’s easier if your s/o is in the industry bc they have an innate understanding someone outside wouldn’t but I don’t think that means you have to find someone in the industry. Curious to hear some thoughts.

Graduated law school, passed the bar, and started my job last summer. My wife and I got pregnant with our first sooner than we expected, and we're due in June. Any general tips/advice?

Hi fishes,
Want some feedback for Employees Assistant Program (EAP) by Capgemini which provides facilities to connect with Therapist.
Actually I am going through some tough times(going through a divorce), want to connect to EAP to discuss my mental health issues.
I had connected once and they say that the conversations are strictly confidential.
Just wanted to know do they really keeps stuff confidential or can they inform my Manager regarding the personal conversations.

Has anyone ever been in a mostly platonic relationship? I don’t like to label myself much, but I don’t really like intimacy and don’t really like romance. Some people would say I’m asexual/aromantic, but unless that too is a spectrum, I don’t think I fit squarely into that group. As I get older, I’m realizing I’m feeling very lonely. It would be nice to find someone, but have it be platonic (any gender/sex). It’s weird, I know. It’s hard to articulate as well. Can anyone relate? 😭😭

Has anyone been through a situation that you were in a terrible relationship ( stress,anger, fights, swears, physical abuse, ego clashes) and how did you resolve it? Some might have worked on and stayed in the relationship and some might have broken up. I am looking for answers from both sides. How did you stay/work on it and how did you break up and move on? Me and my partner have strong feelings for eachother and are almost inseparable despite going through so much.

Any 40+ women here interested to make new friends? 40+ man here.

I am an unmarried working man in his 30s with a southern mother. In other words I'm flying home for Christmas and my mother just called to tell me that she just happened to accidentally run into the sweetest girl from her church that she just knows I'll get along with and accidentally invited her to our house for dinner the night that I get home. Deadass the woman will not rest until I am tied down. Pray for me!

Married to a man who raised kids as a single dad and did lots of good things. He’s now retired and his hostility is killing me. We had nice ($$$$$) dinner last night and thought maybe we will finally connect. Well on his way to restroom a group was having pic taken in lobby and blocked him. Ruined the night. Angry grouchy jerk. And it’s always directed at me. It’s daily. Very sad and lonely. I bring it up and he belittles me. Traveling limited my exposure and was ok. Now I can’t handle

Girlfriend has very obvious high functioning anxiety and body image issues that she admits but thinks she doesn’t need therapy or medication and that reading self-help books will help her. It’s not changing in the last several years and it’s impacting our relationship. Anyone have experience with their SO dealing with untreated anxiety? I know I can’t control her but would like to express my feelings without sending her into a spiral. For context, I’ve been in therapy for 12 months and medicated

My older sister is an extremely talented woman. She knows everything brand design, graphic design and ideation. The list goes on with what she can do and it is all self taught. She’s on the job hunt looking for something flexible while she’s working at a nonprofit. I want to encourage her to do design but I’m unsure of how to actively help without over stepping?

I want to visit family for a week or two. Would it be better to get a sitter for my cat, or could I bring her? I imagine a 4hr flight and a temporary new house and would be jarring but I also don’t want her to be bored/lonely.

Women- if your husband says he fantizes about xyz actresses and models- how would you feel?

Me and my partner are not sure whether we want to have kids . Sometimes we want to and the next day we are completely against the idea . The reason we want to have kids is that we want to grow our inner circle , have more people in this world who we can call our family. And we don’t want to have kids is that it will put extra pressure on us , less freedom for next 10-15 years. Wanted to understand why people have kids or don’t have kids . Please share your thoughts :)

Been dating for a little over a year, but she hasn’t introduced me to her family yet. I don’t have any plans for thanksgiving this year, and she didn’t invite me to spend the holiday with her family (local). Is it still too early or is it a red flag?

To those who divorced or called off the engagement, did you take the ring back? And if so, what did you do with it?

Hi,

Just started a new job less than a month ago in the tech sector. It was the industry I was fixated on when leaving for. However I realise that I don't think I can cope with the fast paced, lack of wlb, with no support - it's really impacting my mental health already....

I try to hide it from my boyfriend, but its impact is flowing into my personal life.
I feel like a failure, but recognise it might be beneficial to cut loss and quit. Has anyone been in this situation?

Any advice?

Can anyone please refer me, have 2 years experience in Java, SQL, Spring Boot, Hibernate and Microservices.
Current company - Cognizant
LWD - 20th October

Thanks,

Whats the going salary for staff Content Producers on either coast or midwest. Go!

Is chasing promotion is a losing game? Is it better to get the experience I need for the exit instead of just killing myself doing everything the firm wants me to do so they can consider promoting me?

Hi Everyone, I am looking for a job change. I have 5+ years of experience (2 years in Indirect Taxation and over 3 years in Business Finance). Currently I am into Retail Business Finance. If anyone has any leads, please provide reference. Thanks

Hi Sharks,

I am a product owner and want to learn all aspects of product management and to transition as a product manager in leading Tech firms. I had completed my engineering and mba but never worked as a software engineer. I started my career in sales and am now working as a PO. So I lack technical knowledge as well. Can some experienced product manager guide me and PPL like me here on this fish bowl a step by step plan to achieve this goal. What courses we can join, what books to read

Does anyone have experience or thoughts about life after big law (whatever that means)? I'm a third year tax associate and seriously worrying whether I've chosen a practice area that is too "niche" to find something after. Do I even want to practice law? Do I just need a vacation?? Any and all insights are welcome!

Does IBM providing mac books to new hires this year or is this domain specific? Lenovo ka thinkpad chhod k dell Hp b chalega.. macbook ki chah ni hai. Plz batao kya process rehta h.

Hello all. My company just went through an acquisition and the company did some restructuring of job titles. When they did this we were all advised the company would be making sure our jobs pay aligned with the national average.
My issue with this is my job title went from a Technical Support Supervisor to a Customer Success Team Lead. I have voiced my concerns with management but have been advised job titles are semantics. In my eyes this is a demotion, and will affect how much my job is worth.

Hi everyone,

I had offer of a well known company but they said position is on hold so they will be thinking on that and I have resigned from my company

I'm currently working In a good company as a Big Data Engineer having overall work experience of 2 years.


Skill Set: Python, Hadoop, Spark, SQL, Hive, Sqoop

Please refer me in any suitable position.

#referral #help #dataengineer #job

Y’all I am struggling on these “light” home improvement projects we decided to take on with a recent house purchase. Plan was just to replace carpets, paint some walls, and replace kitchen appliances. Now added on new faucets, other bathroom hardware / mirrors / toilets / medicine cabinets / exhaust fans, baseboard recaulking and cleanup, kitchen sliding door, ceiling fan rewiring and install, window replacements… how do I rein it in?? So stressed out and we keep delaying move in. 🤯😱😭

I am a Business Analyst. I have 10 years of working experience in India. In May 2022 I will complete MSc Business Analytics from Maynooth university.
In the past I have lead a team of analyst performing multiple activities like sales analytics, web analytics on Google analytics, I have also worked as a scrum master in certain projects
I have worked with tools like tableau, power BI and now alteryx any suggestions for the job role I should look forward to?

How can I learn chinese?

I have a few MGNI 3/19 50C. Should I hold them through earnings tomorrow or just roll them to June expiration.

Anybody have experience with a legitimate private investigator in the nyc area? This is an awkward conversation with friends and family so thought I would try here. Online presences are difficult to gauge so web not that much help.

Steak dinner at a nice restaurant...or Chinese takeout tonight? Solo for both...

I have a job interview today that I’m actually nervous about. That’s a good sign right? All my other ones I was dreading or just wanted to skip. I’ve only been jobless for 2 weeks - I would like more time, but this is a company and boss that we’ve been dancing around each other for about a year. And they have a position open at the same time I need a job.

Me and my partner are not sure whether we want to have kids . Sometimes we want to and the next day we are completely against the idea . The reason we want to have kids is that we want to grow our inner circle , have more people in this world who we can call our family. And we don’t want to have kids is that it will put extra pressure on us , less freedom for next 10-15 years. Wanted to understand why people have kids or don’t have kids . Please share your thoughts :)

What do you do when the people you thought you could count on for help, actually don't help?

How can a i do a pic reverse search on my mobile?

Almost said the wrong name in bed yesterday; caught it right at the moment - the low-key panic I felt damn 😳

Teeny confession/victory, but today I successfully folded hospital corners for the first time...at the age of twenty seven, I’m finally on par with an eight year old at bed making skills.

she's a 10 but excel thinks she's an October

Any book recommendations that are must reads/made a significant impact on you?

I’m 29 and only now realized I shouldn’t go on dates if I’m still bitter about an ex

Was offered a role at fluent360 but I can’t find out anything about them… the only thing I’ve discovered is a fairly high turnover rate. Any advice?

My car that I purchased in 2020 has been the best performing asset I own right now

I’m afraid I’m emotionally unavailable and that by the time I figure out how to be emotionally available I’ll have lost the good guy I’m currently with. I love this guy with my head but not my heart. But also my heart feels dead in general so 🫠. I’m already in therapy. What if this is as far as I can go in terms of emotional capacity? I am stressed.

That is all.

I came to US few years ago , I have a heavy accent and still struggle to express myself fluently at times. Any advice on best online resources to help with my accent/fluency?

Buzz Chat is a mindset

Fellas, what’s your go to dating app? And what do you use it for? For example hook ups.

I call my family after work and spend time with them.Sometimes I even take my family on a trip with me lol

How old were you when you first took a blue pill/viagra? Currently 26 and a buddy doesn’t stop raving about it, tempted but feels too young to try?

Married ppl in your 20s/30s, do your inlaws expect you to greet them for major holidays and their birthdays?