My hosts from last night didn’t finish their cut work and there was still a mess when I opened for gift card sales. My manager is blaming me for their mess.

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If you are in leadership, this does fall on your shoulders, though the methodology the manager chooses to apply toward holding people accountable can vary in terms of quality.

What was the actual issue? The concept of "blaming" is pretty vague. Did the feedback feel like it was coaching, or just reprimanding?

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