My spouse and I have been together for 18 years, married 8. No kids. Busy season is not new to us. He got off work early today, by 3 hrs. He spent some time prepping an upcoming meal (primarily meal preparer). I took a break for groceries. I worked until 6, took our dogs to exercise. Got home and he had fallen asleep. He woke up, upset, hungry, needing laundry, etc. He loves to makes comments in this state about how his job is mental and physical. I just sit at home. So frustrating.

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Be kind to each other. Life can be hard!
Also he cooks? He’s a keeper. Show him some grace

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He does, former professional cook, so my home cook skills tend to be underwhelming to him. 😂

After this long, I would hope you both understand the nature of your jobs but it may be good to talk through it and build empathy for one another. Chances are you both feel under appreciated so may need to share what you each would appreciate from the other and go from there. Good luck!

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