I find it hard to keep it together at school. I was in an abusive relationship that finally lead me to emptiness and emotional trying times. I keep things bottled up about school and home.

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It can be hard to separate our own emotions and baggage from our time at school. If you aren’t comfortable opening up to someone you know consider therapy if you haven’t already, it really can be helpful! I see you said “was” so I am assuming you are no longer in this relationship so moving forward from that will be important (and I am so glad you are not in that situation anymore!). Please take care of yourself. ♥️♥️♥️

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