Perspectives needed! At my age nothing matters more than having good friends and family around that you know well and they know you. But most importantly for all the right reasons. But I live in a super ambitious (status wise) city and most people I meet will quiz you on your class, status, finances and race before even knowing you. I'm interested if meeting people based on essentially the desire to connect and build a strong community. It seems like a pipe dream some days.

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Geez, who wants to have friends that are racist and need to know your finance details?

Have you tried looking for local groups on Meetup.com? There are often local social clubs for single, seniors, or people who want to run together, etc. I’ve even joined groups for depression and chronic illness (though these are via Zoom).

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yes thats what makes it so ironic! Why do rich people want friends and join these groups if they want only pedigree and curate a specific person. There are other places for them to go.

As someone younger, I've only been able to build those kinds of friendships with people I have known for years

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