Random question: would you enter into a situationship with someone that is in an open marriage (and this is a confirmed open marriage, but just someone saying that to enter into an affair).

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This question doesn't seem very "random" to me.... 🧐

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depends. are you entering it with the wife or husband?

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I say ok to enter into with wife, but not with husband

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No. Even if I wasn’t looking for something serious, I’d want someone who was more available than a partner who already had other partners (in this case, a spouse). Also skeeved by the health aspect.

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covid. 🤪.

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No interest of being a NPC

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No, because I want someone who understands that we have to be completed committed to each other. Just knowing me, my heart would ache if I thought that my husband wanted an open marriage, because it says to me that I am not enough.

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Tbh, just do whatever works for you. Married couples, especially those in an open marriage with kids are almost guaranteed not to be intimate with one another. The relationship turns into a marriage of convenience and hopefully friendship. It’s possible for your own relationship with the person to blossom into something more if you’re open to it.

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Depends what you’re looking for and what they can provide. Also what’s your confidence in maintaining your own boundaries over time?

Sex, company, affirmation, exploring the range of people, lots of good stuff can be had. But you need to be ok with it not ‘going anywhere’.

And the better it is, the harder that aspect is.

So: what do you want?

Nope. 🚩

If some one wants to get there groove on do it regardless of this that or the next thing

Nope. Especially if this is a man and you’re a woman.

Regardless if they are interested I'm interested

If people want to engage in other parties go for it, life's short those who seem bothered by it are the ones that secretly crave different.

No I wouldn’t. I don’t like complicated relationships. However, if that’s what you like and it’s an open marriage, you do you, but just make sure you know what you’re signing yourself up for.

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