Regular fantasize about swinging lifestyle, swapping partners, having orgies, open relationship, etc but don’t know how to tell my partner it’s something I want to try with them.. any tips out there?

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You can try using mojo upgrade. It’s a quiz both partners can take independently and then match on things that both agree on. It may give you new things to explore!

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Have you asked them what they think about these things first?

Oh my god, PLEASE don’t bring this up if she’s going through a period of insecurity. You really could do long term damage to her mental health and your relationship. I would rather sacrifice myself and come secretly jerk you off than let you pop this on another woman when she’s not feeling her best.😤

Go to a clothing optional club first to experience it without actually doing it; get a taste

Male or female partner?

Oyyy, that is very delicate. I would take an incremental, long-game approach.

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