My mother is considering moving back to Korea...

Well, I was the one who broke it off. I couldn’t get him to love me the way I needed or even respect me enough. It’s been 6 weeks of not seeing each other. We messaged this week. He doesn’t get it…. His messages show he still doesn’t know what he wants. Yet, if I am totally honest, I hate how part of me wishes he would do a grand gesture/finally decide to be a better man. It’s delusional. It’s crazy how love can be so rosy, sweet & blinding that the red flags seem surmountable.

Has anyone heard or experienced going on maternity leave, then leaving shortly after returning? I'm hearing from my husband's company if he takes pat leave, and leaves shortly after returning, he'd have to repay the wages paid while out on leave. Is this only for pat leave and the person who gives birth wouldn't have to pay back as it's technically disability pay? Trying to weigh my options as I want to get out of my company, but want the mat leave first.

Salam. 23M here - all my life I’ve had my back on our faith - never really prayed but had imaan (I guess). After bouts of depression from girl problems (🙄), issues within immediate family, being disappointed expectations I had for myself, etc. I’ve been working on bettering my situation over the years. Faith is the only area where I think I need more guidance. Having trouble relating to friends or family about this. Anyone else been thru something similar? How have you connected back to Islam?

I have a lot of mindless closing binder assembly today so I’ve been watching Restrepo and Korengal in the background. It.... really puts things in perspective. I feel like such a baby for complaining about long hours or stressing over emails.

Anyone ever have success with requesting AA to transfer a spouse’s separate reservation to your reservation so SO can reap elite status benefit (ie, early boarding/seat selection)?

Most awkward Uber stories? My uber driver showed me a picture of her baby. Um, it was a doll.

Hi guys

This question may not be related. However I wanted to know from personal and family point of view how it is like to relocate from India and live abroad .
Let's say Family consists of husband , wife and a kid . I understand we will get good facilities, education, cleanliness , good air etc , however I wanted to check whether people gel up easily in the new environment? Don't they feel loneliness/ difficult to adjust? Do they look for similar asian nationalities to kill boredom?

A question for parents of young kids, we are moving to DC i will be with Pwc and my husband is an attorney. I have an 8 month old and I am trying to figure out what would be better daycare or nanny. To the parents out there how do you manage to pick up your kids from school? Also any tips on how to juggle both.

Currently in industry at 135k salary, poor healthcare, amazing wlb, a month of parental leave, work is okay.

Considering data science roles at :
return to Deloitte aim for SC in GPS
trying out EY GPS aim for SC
Gov job range is 100-120k and would need to negotiate up pto otherwise I’d for sure decline

-any perspectives appreciated

I even though I’m 30 and have my own apartment in NYC, I always love going home and feel like a kid again when my mom cooks for me. They’re getting older, and moments like these are getting rare.

Anyone in late 20s-early 30s in nyc looking for friends?

Do you ever get over an ex you loved?

This is a story of my friend i met a month back. He is in mid 30’s. According to him, Marriage is becoming so difficult these days. He had multiple meetings via matrimonial sites. Salary, big home, job profile, joint vs nuclear family, homely vs career oriented, no cooking like ever, NRI demand, god knows how many more reasons of mismatch he faced.
He said he had a relationship earlier which didn’t worked out. He was literally emotional and so misses her now. She got married couple of years back

I was told to give one students “food rewards” when he does what he is supposed to do. I will only do this if others on task gets the same reward. Non-perishable, kid friendly, bite size food ideas?

Sometimes I wake up and am surprised I’m on people’s close friends story. They aren’t on my list but alright, I’ll take it. Guess we’re close than I expected?

The babies that I bake fill a volcano. I’m clogging up the kill. My wretched baby paste requires Drano!

I know the general answer to this, but I want to know others response.
If by your 30’s you’re mostly established in life, why is it then harder to establish a long lasting relationship with someone ?

Who has the best parental leave policies? Need advice

Hi Anyone worked in DQAM team at Credit Suisse India, wanted to how is the work in terms of learning, careeer progression etc.

TIA

Snowflake people - how many shares did they give you pre-IPO, how long before IPO did you join, and what was your level of experience?

Got a referral to BCG and still haven’t had anybody follow up to screen or interview me. It’s been two weeks now. Lol do I give up all hope? How long does this usually take?

What gear bag would you recommend for my camera that can be used as a carry-on?

Just found out I got laid off. Cheers to the weekend 🍺

I've my eb3 priority date of April'19. In how many years could I possibly expect to get my GC realistically?

Hi all, I am looking for Managerial and senior managerial positions in Operations Excellence in Toronto please help to refer me if there is an similar opportunity in your organization.

Accenture strategy put my candidature on hold. Is it same as rejected? Or can i expect a call back?

Hi,
My date of joining in TCS is 16th November 2022

- Will the onboarding be virtual or physical?
- How many days would it take before I get a laptop and start working?

Hi Fishes,

I want to switch to another Company but I want to know that what salary range Market is Giving for 2+ years job seekers. I have 2.2 years of Experience on SAP C4C and also have good understanding and hands-on experience of SAP CDC.

Thanks in advance🙂

Expecting an offer this week or early next week, but want to know when you start negotiating the salary? When you receive the call from the company or wait until receiving the formal offer letter? And how should the negotiation start? Through phone calls or emails? Didn’t use recruiter for this position, so I don’t know what is the process here.

How can I learn about investing in crypto? KISS please

Where are all the cute lawyers 😍😛

Hello desi fam...Anyone know wherr/how to get an iptv box in the Chicago area?.... thanks

I wanted to know if there is any opening for 1 yoe Java/backend developer.

January 13th is Korean-American Day!

Don't forget to honor those Korean-Americans that have made sacrifices and contributions to pave way for a better life and nation.

Is this bowl alive?!? Just found this bowl!!

Any Korean 동료/선배s on here from P Dubs? Looking to meet more Korean ppl in the firm~

HMU! Would love to meet up at the office or in-person - based in NYC.

Korean 🐠, where is everyone from? I’m Chicago transplant originally from LA

Any of you all going to be in Vegas Dec 31-Jan 4? Let’s party

Guys....we can do better than 55 consultants.

What drives you to continue to grind? For me, it’s pride

Any Korean / Korean-American management consultants in NYC that would be down to meet up?

Any of you suffering from a bad case of imposter syndrome?

Nothing like making seolleongtang on a lazy Saturday afternoon! What other dishes that remind you of home? Any recipes?

How are my Koreans/KAs doing todayy

Happy Chuseok, Fam!

Anyone in the DC metro area? I just moved to Arlington. Looking to blend in culture.

Where’s everybody based?!

Any Korean 🐠 in Denver? I’m craving a somek night!

Has anyone ever worked in Korea? What did you do? Are you fluent in Korean?

Serious question: I’m too culturally Korean to be a marketable product in the US dating market. I’m too culturally American to be marketable in the Korean dating market. What do I do?

Anyone going to be in SF during the week? I’m on a project by myself for the next few months. Would be nice to grab a drink after work.