So, my husband and I work together. He's not my supervisor and we're in different departments but I have to interact with him in Zoom meetings a lot because we're both team leads in our respective orgs. Both of us in separate rooms acting soooo professional on this zoom call 40 minutes after I threw a coffee cup at the wall. WFH does NOT work for me and I don't know what do.

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Maybe address the reason you’re throwing coffee around

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LOLLLL

It's tough to understand where the challenge lies. Is it the WFH only? Is it WFH w/your husband that's bothering you? I'm not sure how to interpret what you're saying to try and better help out

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Like is it the social aspect of it or do you feel like you don't have enough space at home?

Sorry you're going through that. I would definitely want to throw things too if I had to work with my partner : )

And the plot thickens.

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Does WFH not work for you? Or is it more working at the same company with your husband isn't?

I mean, I guess I could see how being at the office allows for more breaks from each other, but wouldn't you just have meetings in person?

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I think it's amazing that you're able to keep it professional like that. Are you thinking of transferring jobs anytime soon?

Seriously, couples therapy my dude. You shouldn't hate the person you are with like this.

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