Started have this realization/reality sinking in moment where I probably won’t ever get married, have kids and my life won’t turn out how I had planned for it to go at all. I’ve tried talking to a handful of guys and they just want to mess around and not be serious at all. The ones that are serious I honestly can’t date them becuase they seem immature not emotionally but in other ways where they aren’t responsible with finances or don’t really want to work, or can’t manage their day to day (cont

How to handle your own procrastination? Any tips/advice?

There’s a manager on here who is cat fishing. Tells women he’s a woman and asks for phone number. Doesn’t share name and uses a Google voice number. Happened with another friend of mine on this bowl and with me. Please be careful.

Asker outers- make reservations. I’m tired of going to dinner or drinks and finding out my date’s plan is winging it and the place doesn’t have space. Make a reservation!! It takes one min!!

Hi anyone up for casual chit chat?

Wow this bowl is dead...no one single in La?

Hi all! I’ve been dating my bf for about 4 months now and there are some things he says/is into that make me believe he is either Bisexual or has gender dysphoria. I could really use someone’s advice who has a similar experience like this. Is anyone willing to chat? I just want to be supportive and helpful.

31/m/oh straight and looking for fun

Talking to the opposite sex at the gym: yes or no? (Or same sex)

What are fun things to do for 2nd date in Chicago?

This Indian matchmaking show is interesting...love how the first girl is like “my partner needs to fit in my life” 😳🙄😳🙄🤭

Any single f wants to connect?

Where do professionals 30+ meet people these days besides dating apps?!

Any of Dfw female fishes interested in spending time over drinks/ dinner chat abot life, fun friendly conversation, may we watch a movie together. ? Brown Male 36 .

I'm on a beach in Florida and a guy walks up to me and is like "you're from Texas, huh?" And I'm like "yeah, how'd you know"? And then I realize how he knew...

34/male /northern VA/white/balding/starting to get a dad bod/im probably single for a reason

Super appealing right?

Hi can anyone suggest good pgs for men near deloitte Hyderabad.

Can’t sleep. Any ladies want to chat? 👩🏽

Best part about being single: Not having to hold in my gas ! What is the best part of it for you??

What is the notice period during probation in HCL.
Please anyone tell me.

Thanks.

What’s a good baseline amount to keep in a checking account? I generally keep mine pretty low <1000 after paying CCs then dump the rest in savings. As I’m building a rainy day fund and then I will start contributing my brokerage account.

For reference <1 year experience at $4500/month (after taxes and 401k contribution)

Serious question… if I am interested in becoming a CTO/CDO one day, what should I do for the next 5-8 years to prepare for this? Are there specific roles in tech that prepares you for a CTO role? I am currently in sales engineering with over a decade in consulting experience.

Hi im having 3 yoe having 2 offer 1.Nice x+2 variable+1Joining bonus 2.Bitwise x+2 fix which one i should join plesae suggest in term of job security and learning wise

Hey folks , which companies in pune are still offering complete work from home or permanent work from home?

Hi Fishes :
I have 2 offers for Automation Engineer:
1- EPAM Anywhere - 21LPA[inc. Bonus] - Totally Remote
2- Jio Infocom - 21 LPA[Fixed] but with lot of provisions in CTC - Will call to office [location : Mumbai]

YOE: 6 Years
Need your suggestions

Question about remote job negotiations

I'm currently interviewing for a remote role for a company based in NY.

The thing is I'm based in a different city (southern U.S.)

My question is:

When it comes time to talk compensation, should I base the market rate for the role on my city of residence or NY?

Would it make sense to ask them directly how they determine comp for NY-bases vs. other city-based employees?

Anyone have experience with this?

Hi Fishes,
I cleared LTI all rounds and in HR discussion we came on mutual agreement for 16lpa .I have 7 years of experience and they gave me Specialist - Data Engineering(P3) role. And we agreed I will join with after 60 as I had to serve 60 days notice period. I was waiting for offer letter and when I received the offer letter I was shocked to see that CTC mentioned was 14LPA and joining date was only 15days from now ,which is way early.
Continuing the POST (++)

Hi Fishes,

If the gross CTC is more than 120K in Poland, tax will be 32% right?

Are there any other deductions apart from this?

My assumption is, we get atleast 68% of our gross. Are there any ways this can further reduce?

How do I do well enough to survive the next year if I have zero interest in staying in consulting and moving up and am here to just gain that sweet strategy experience to move back to industry?

How much does a senior associate in FS Regulatory & Comp- Capital Markets @ KPMG make in NYC?

Laid off, any tips on how to gain experience/sharpen resume while job searching? I was in a project management support analyst role/ Venture capital sales role. I’m thinking of getting certifications to increase marketability

Hey Fishes, I'm looking for functional lead roles with 10 yoe. I'm able to join in 20 days. Any leads would be appreciated 😊😊

I’m a biomedical equipment technician how much do Michigan pays

I had an interview the week before Christmas and New Years. I know there is usually a holiday slump - when should I reach out about an update? It will be 3 weeks tomorrow.

new to the bowl, just saying hi!

Any female fish in the nyc area like dating guys 35+?

Would you marry someone that’s unemployed or doesn’t want to work? What’s the minimum salary you can accept from your SO ?

Hey Fishes, looking for safe quiet places for a single person which are quiet but within ~45 min to times square area?

Meet up Announcement: start your Labor Day weekend off right! Tomorrow, 9/4 @ 5:30PM. Heckscher Playground. Comment if you want to be added to the group!

Do women like to be bought items out of appreciation ?

Any 40+ women here interested to make new friends? 40+ man here.

Anyone up for watching the Euro 2020 finals this Sunday? M30

Damn! Why's it so silent in here 😅 35M NYC

Any single F looking to get dinner or drinks today evening? 35 M here.

Looking for a running buddy in the city. DM me for deetz!

What’s everyone a/s in this bowl?

Any ladies up for a drink this weekend?. Have the next 5 days off from work. 33 M

Who does like a strong espresso?

What bars do men in their 30s frequent?

How about everyone plan a get together on a weekend in a bar know each other and build this community?

33M returning to NYC on Saturday. Anyone up for a Sunday brunch, cocktails, or a Central Park workout?

Any NY F fish want to grab a drink this evening? 31M here.

So many people live in NYC but still it feels like the loneliness place on the planet. Does anybody have positive stories from dating apps? How do you guys meet ppl in general?

Any Female fish want to grab brunch and watch the Masters this weekend