Super nice guy but really no physical attraction - 2 dates done, most polite way to end things? Thanks guys!

What’s the right age difference? My friends set me up on a date with a girl who is 12 years younger to me. I was feeling so uncomfortable all through my dinner with her.

Any single men want to chat? 30/f

Hi there! Newbie here. Single woman, 45 in Chicago. What is everyone doing to keep socially active? Anybody actually dating?

Looking for a flatmate (male) in magarpatta city, 1bhk semi furnished apartment. 9k rent.

So any hot guys on here 👀?

What’s your wildest lifestyle story or fantasy? Mine is to be tied up, blindfolded, eaten out and fucked by a dozen gals. 💁🏽‍♀️

30M in Indianapolis open to chatting

29F, Texas. Willing to relocate to anywhere in usa or Canada. Seeking someone mature, stable, family oriented. Open to chatting to see if its a mutual match.

Any DMV single male 🐠?

Do you guys date at church? It gives me a lot of nervousness and anxiety so I tend to avoid it

Which city would you recommend for single men in late 20s trying to find good opportunities in career & dating? Leaning more towards to NYC but not planning to live in Manhattan due to the high rent so I am not sure that would be okay. Also don't want to drive that much.

So, how does a first timer go about getting involved in dating apps? How do I start and what’s a good one to use? Last time I dated, only Match existed!! 🙄 (long story, I’m not that old)

For the F 🐠 - is it really that hard out there in your city? What’s been your biggest challenge with finding the right guy? Any regrets not making it work w/ an ex or friend zone guy from the past?

I met someone out the other day and had great chemistry. We've been texting and he just proposed a first date at Rise. 😔 Anyone else not enjoy having dates at gay bars?

I find dating apps to be unhealthy to an extent. If a minor inconvenience occurs, it's simple to move on to the next one and the cycle repeats. Have any of you met "the one" through a dating app?

I moved to a new city and reconnected with an old friend. We’ve been spending a lot of time together (not dating) and things are beginning to get a little steamy. He’s made it clear that sex is important to him in a relationship, but I’m celibate and plan to wait till marriage. I don’t see a future with him, but I enjoy being friends. Am I being selfish to hold on to him even though I know I would never give him the sex he wants? Should I just cut him loose right away? Please help.

Looking for a suggestion for a date spot that would be convenient and a good halfway meeting point: i’m in Murray Hill and my date is coming from Astoria. I usually have my dates meet me here when they live in Manhattan but I think somewhere halfway would be more fair in this case. Ideas?

Why is dating here so hard… -.- or maybe it’s just me RIP

31M here. Met a girl last week, 31F, and we hit it off instantly. We have so much in common and everything feels right, tomorrow will be our 3rd date. She slept over last night, no sex, but we made out all night. I haven’t felt like this for anyone in a while and it feels amazing, but I’m scared to commit. I have this fear of getting hurt or putting in effort only for it not to last.

Any recommendations for patent prosecution practice management software for a small firm? Currently not using anything and want to be able to better manage and monitor associates.

Could someone shed the light on the fdd deal flow in mm? Are you guys busy on deals? I’ll start in three weeks and I’m worried about the negative impact of economy. My location is nyc

Read a very interesting article on that used machine learning and a lot of data to find key things people look on a relationship:
- Tall (if a man),
- Rich,
- Specific race/ethnicity,
- Similarity to one self (people are 11% more likely to date someone with a similar name)
- Sexy name? I may have to change mine now
- Physical attractiveness
- Occupation of authority - if a man

And these same factors were classified as the ones with the least impact on happiness in a relationship

EY (specifically the New York FDD data analytics team) is actively hiring seniors and managers. Please feel free to reply to this post or send me a private message if interested. Thank you!

Is anyone else exhausted with their consulting staff thinking they’re gods? Being treated with disrespect constantly by them is so draining. How do you manage your responses to them that’s not a 30 second turnaround?

With employee well-being being front and center lately, has anyone asked their benefit providers to create something candidate facing? Or are you just sharing the exact same benefit material you show your employees?

Any recruiters here that do onboarding? Also, to what extent.

Been a great year for games. What was your fave?

I just had two of the weirdest interview. I was interviewing for a payroll systems mgmt role and the first guy was a finance mgr and he didn't ask me anything. I basically interviewed him. The 2nd interviewer was the hr systems lead. She had read my resume and was super weirded out that my current role is the same as hers. I think she thought I was interviewing to replace her. She kept asking me what I would be doing. Like dude, do you not know why you are even interviewing me? Hard pass.

Hello - not sure if there are any local Boston UX/Product Designers interested in contract work with a boutique Digital Transformation agency but we are recruiting for 2 open roles contract to hire.

This agency is in downtown Boston by North Station and looking for people that can create end to end and have a unique interest in UX plus healthcare mobile work.

They are seeking local candidates only who can come in 3 days per week to work with their existing team of 10.

Happy to tell you more.

"I don’t like morning people. Or morning. Or people”

Words of Wisdom

Any insights/opinions on living in Toluca Lake?

In August, Joe Biden referred to the "extreme MAGA philosophy" as "semi-fascism."

Do you think Donald Trump or other Republicans can accurately be described as fascists? Do you think journalists should describe them as fascists?

TCS rehiring started?
TCS HR called me and scheduled an interview even though I said I'm exTcser

My male boss recommended the book “The Confidence Code” which is a self help book for women. It was recommended to all the females that work under him. I feel like that's a little inappropriate?

So I'm the only black advisor in my office and I feel so out of place. I walk into meeting early and people won't notice I'm there and everyone wears really expensive shoes and clothes. They all have their cliques and then there's just me.

Do managers tend to make a scene while you put your papers?

Anybody know of a quick and nimble developer who’s available for freelance? Very cool/simple website for a start up platform. SF based but remote is fine!

Where are my lesbian 🐟 at?

Blow me one last kiss 😘

Any non-cishet male folks want to chat? Missing community right now!

I'm a bigger guy and I'm very gymtimidated. Joined the gay gym in dc and I went once and got freaked out. I have a panic attack thinking about going and I end up not going because I'm too scared/embarrassed. I must look like a cow. Any tips or encouragement on how to get over this? Going at off peak hours when it's less full is helpful, but not always possible.

Anyone in SF this week? Just got in from NYC

Deloitte peeps.. Can someone give me the detailed run down on how to most cheaply access PrEP? Starting with which health plan option, etc. Thanks in advance!

I accept follow requests left & right without following back and without shame. What does this say about me besides that I and, let’s say Beyoncé, are generally very similar?

I have a friend who told me he sought treatment for alcohol abuse 6 mo ago. We talk a lot and I try not to judge or ask too many questions about his progress, just wanting to be a supportive friend who doesn’t pressure him. Today I brought him to a very laid back picnic… there was drinking but plenty of non-alcoholic alternatives, and it was a very chill group. Toward the end of the day I noticed him drink something. Should I have confronted and stopped him? Should I bring it up now? Guilty now

How many of you are in an interracial relationship? And what are yours and your partner's ethnicities?Just wanted to do a quick poll :)

Whose in LA tn

Anyone move to Miami in the last 1-2 years? what’s it like vs where you were before? Do you like it so far? How’s the dating scene if you’re BIPOC?

I haven’t watched drag race before but I’m curious to learn more. Do you all have a favorite season or a season you recommend I start with?

Long shot, but are there any horny guys in NYC?

Thinking about moving from Seattle to San Diego, but don’t have any friends down there. Any advice for how to meet queer friends?

Any Gaylors in this bowl? Bejeweled is the gayest thing I’ve seen in a long time… and I watch lesbian 🌽…

Ally here. What do I say to someone who refuses to stop confusing gender identity and sexual orientation? The usual examples don't help.

Ghosted once more after what I thought was a great first date. Guess I’ll give up on love forever.

Just moved to Chicago. How is the lesbian dating scene here? Love to connect with ladies based in Chicago

Have you seen women wear ties and "masculine"-looking suits to work? Was it accepted by client and team? I've never worn a tie to work, but when I've worn clothing that had a more "masculine" fit either in grad school or some work environments, I've gotten comments and looks, or sometimes asked (or people gossiped) about my orientation. When I wear more "feminine"-looking clothing, I feel more more uncomfortable and awkward. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Any ladies in Chicago this week? Would love to meet for dinner and/or drinks (Black female)