Team ,
Is anyone married to a girl who is earning double to you ? .
I am 25 old and earning 6.5 and my parents are forcing to marry a 12 lpa girl.. what to do,? Accept or wait for others

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Yes, see it's very rare that girl would be able to make peace with this thing. 99pc of the girls won't marry someone earning less than them. This is not an opinion but a fact.

Now either she is being forced by her parents, or you are having some inherited wealth or she is genuinely interested in you.
Now which ever be the case, during any arguments this low salary point might be used by her and you would again be back in fishbowl for advice.
Also remember it's 99.9 pc proven fact that girls don't share their resources i.e. don't expect any monetary help from her side in your day to day affairs. So there is no point in
Running for a good earning girl

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Ohk then let me try to explain my parents this ..

Classic Male Ego

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Totally agree! He should put his ego aside and accept the proposal. Enjoy the extra cash flow.

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If the bride side is ready then go-ahead

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Never ever do this !!!!!

Means not to accept?

What's the update? Accepted or rejected the proposal?

how's sexual lyf going on?

I'm very late to reply on this but around 5 years back when I got married I was at 9lpa( just before marriage I switched to 14.5 but 9 was when marriage was finalized) and my wife was at 14.

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