The affects of stress can be physically and emotionally exhausting. Whether you can control the stress is not always an option. If the stress is in your personal life, you can bury yourself in work.

How would you handle work stress when working in more than one job?

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This has been my life for so long I can't even remember what it's like to not feel drowning in stress all of the time. I know it's horrible for my health (and trust me I'm starting to feel it) but I don't know how to survive financially without hustling all of the time. Would love some tips if anyone has it figured out!

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Yeah it totally feels like this to me right now. My husband and I have been wanting to start a family in the next year or two, and its just like.. how does anyone manage this unbearable stress with kids too? Or maybe the kids help make it easier? I'm honestly not convinced of that..

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