Toxic IT Job Destroyed My Mental Health. Now I'm Stuck Between Finding Another Job and Doing a Master's.
I quit my IT job after years of low pay, 12–14 hour workdays, and a toxic work culture. I often worked until 11:30 PM, came home, ate dinner, and slept. For 2–3 years, I barely spoke to my parents because I was always exhausted. Now I'm stuck between finding another job or pursuing a Master's. Has anyone been through this? Which path helped you recover and grow?.

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Same for me. Resigned last month. Now, trying not to extend the gap and find a job soon.

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