Very embarrassing post to make - but I have recently accepted that I’m gay and want to begin a bit of sexual exploration. For context, I’m 30M, and a virgin (lot of trauma and healing done in the last few years, from body dysmorphia to internalized homophobia). Finally feel ready to explore the world.

My question is: how can I have safe sex / protect myself? Are there blogs/websites with tips I can explore?

Guys, When you match/accept requests/ start talking to a girl and go MIA is it becoz you have multiple options? Would the world be not better if you just said yes or no and close the convo instead of

Where do you stay up to date in the best ideas from the industry?

Any Brooklyn people wanting to network/chat?

People that hop between Dubai and Riyadh like me anybody interested in meeting up sometime and maintaining a semblance of a social life?

Any west coast lesbians 29-38 want to chat?

Why is the ROI in online dating so miserably low?

What's your date of Jalsa??

Any ladies that would like to go out for dinner? 27M 🙃

Started talking to this guy through group a group telegram and one day he offered to pay for my lunch as I had helped him out with something. Since then he has been offering to pay for my dinners, salon visits, shopping etc and I have accepted 3-4 times. I am in a steady relationship and my boyfriend doesn’t know about this. The other guy just says he likes paying for my stuff and there’s no agenda. Is this a little weird?

Best men pg near EY rmz or bagmane locations

Looking for a girl travel partner to explore banglore city outskirts. Anyone interested?

39M in West LA, looking to meet someone for drinks and see where things go! (Never married, no kids)

In my 40s, here in the larger NYC area for a couple weeks visiting family. Male, athletic. If anyone's interested in chatting (admittedly in a playful mood currently, so that's my current preference), drop me a DM.

Brand new single post divorce. Was with ex almost 18 years and never dated as an adult. What the hell am I in for? 35f.

Ladies - few girls in finance date guys in finance, even though each one of you are dating material. Top 2 things wrong with guys in finance? Be nice...

Looking for a suggestion for a date spot that would be convenient and a good halfway meeting point: i’m in Murray Hill and my date is coming from Astoria. I usually have my dates meet me here when they live in Manhattan but I think somewhere halfway would be more fair in this case. This will be a first date and it’s probably just drinks but might end up being dinner also. Ideas?

I feel like being gay just adds another layer of difficulty while trying to date in consulting.

23 F Maharashtra, wanted to try virtual dating.. not sure if its worth the time or not let sees

Anyone work at a boys club? How does a female break through if you're not into politics and playing games.

I'll be completing 24 months at level12 on sept 30.
when can i expect promotion and how much hike.?

Hi guys...TCS offices have opened or still wfh is there ?

Hi folks
My company wants to retain me and i told them my future employer . Will that be a problem ?

Bofa vs fractal va tiger .
Please let me know which one to go for and why?
Payscale is almost same but i am looking for job security and wlb

What is happening!!!

This week I received 7 calls from PwC India!

I think they are facing huge attrition...😶

A month back I received offer from them...they just offered 15% hike...
. can someone pls enlighten me...what exactly is happening!!

Are Uber/Lyft drivers reluctant to drive from DC (Logan) to BWI?

Have opportunity to work in my firm’s London satellite office for about a year and a half, and then come back to NY headquarters. In good standing with firm and have M&A and capital markets experience. Did not start traveling abroad until my bar trip (did not grow up with the money for trips like that) and think it would be a good personal and professional experience. Any thoughts / advice?

Hello peeps,

I am from Deloitte (Hyderabad) and I am planning a trip to Coorg, Ooty and munnar from 23rd December to 1st january(flexible).

If anyone is interested and wants to tag along then text me on instagram Id - sharahulkumar

To avoid disappointment on the trip, we can have a conversation prior so that we can check if we vibe together or not.

See ya.

What's a typical base salary for a Senior 2 RPA consultant in a mid-cost of living city?

🔥How much Annual hike(%) & bonus (%) bny Mellon technology employee getting every year? BNY Mellon BNY Mellon Corporation BNY Mellon | Pershing

🚀How much salary range for VP - K grade in bnym technology department? Skills - Java microservices Expr - 13 yr

What are you reading currently, that's related to Product Management. Any book or article? I'm currently reading Measure What Matters.

I feel like being gay just adds another layer of difficulty while trying to date in consulting.

Who has watched It’s A Sin?

I been thinking about buying a 3bed and 3bath house or a condo. I haven’t had much luck in finding one so I started thinking about 4 bed and 3bath. I am single and I don’t have any plans to marry or have a partner staying with me. Is there anyone who’s single living in a 3 or 4 bed house by yourself ? Please share your experiences from all aspects. The only thing that makes me think weird is, it’s too much space for one person ☹️

There’s now a lawsuit in Texas challenging PREP. How much longer do y’all plan to live in the US? This is actually how I predicted this would unfold. That folks with moral objections would file a lawsuit like this, and then get it up to The Church for review, and then overturn Lawrence v Texas. This is just happening a lot faster than I thought.

Doctor rec’s? I was in DC before and I used to go to Whitman Walker, an LGBT focused primary care clinic, clean, efficient and friendly, and they understood the LGBT needs, like PrEP, very well, which is mainly what I need from my PCP. Is there such a thing in NYC?

Any Deloitte folks going to DU this week?

Not sure if other firms are the same, at EY we can add “🏳️‍🌈 I support inclusion” in our email sig. Most people from Unity ERG don’t. If you don’t, why not? Particularly during Pride month.

Hi there!!

🥰🥰
I just want to say that I'm queer and married, in a Cis-hetero passing relationship 🤭

Do we have to talk about dating like all the time?

Can't we talk about other stuff? Like promoting THE AGENDA (jk)

No, but FR let's talk about being open and accepted in the workplace? How did you do that? How (un) friendly is the work environment?

Thankyaaaaaaaalll 😘😘😘

Kinda bummed. I’ve been single for 6 years (I’m 31 now). I live in ptown and talk to guys in Boston on tinder. Was talking to a guy for about a week who is my type. I asked if he wanted to FaceTime tonight and he said sure but caveated that he isn’t into long distance (ptown to Boston) and that we would most likely stick to chatting. Idk what’s wrong with me. Everyone tells me I’m a catch but guys I’m attracted to are never into me 😭 just needed to vent

Anyone Boston next week?

Dude 🐠. Heading to Deloitte soon, want to get some better clothes. Maybe 3-4 new fitted suits, trendy but professional. Don’t want to spend a fortune. Any ideas on your favs?

Anyone at the Q center today/this week?

Gay men in NYC?

One year in NYC—24, enjoyed myself, but no deep connections with new friends/partners. Came to hopefully open the door on a variety of opportunities, but something tells me that spending another year here will not help that. Money flies, space is cramped, not thrilled with my office, hate winter. I miss LA a lot—I miss driving, the weather, the space, people...but everyone tells me I have to give NYC at least 2 years. Thoughts?

Who here have abs 😬

Do you all still go to Barry’s boot camp? I am dying for an actual workout but don’t want to be one of those vanity gays going out in a pandemic.

Solo trip to Puerto Rico. Any recs? Thanks fam.