Looking for a suggestion for a date spot that would be convenient and a good halfway meeting point: i’m in Murray Hill and my date is coming from Astoria. I usually have my dates meet me here when they live in Manhattan but I think somewhere halfway would be more fair in this case. This will be a first date and it’s probably just drinks but might end up being dinner also. Ideas?

How often do you have sex? How long have you been together? I’m lucky if I get it 1x a week and I’m getting frustrated.

My natural instinct is to assume rejection if I have conflict with a partner or don’t think my feelings are reciprocated. I’ll try to bring it up with them, but I’ll say “if you want to end this feel free” so it doesn’t hurt me (and they can say what they really mean instead of sugarcoating). Someone told me today that they just assume I’m not interested because I always seem to “run” but I’m not sure how to bring up problems/feelings otherwise. How do you approach these hard questions?

Is racial attraction really a thing? I knew some gay guys who would fool around with very old guys of his own race and not fool around with younger attractive guys of certain race. How to interpret this?

Any 🐠es interested in having a meet up this month?

How to handle your own procrastination? Any tips/advice?

Is it irrational for me to get an “ick” for this?

I went on a “date” recently. I paid for the tab as they were going to the bathroom. As we were leaving they said “thanks for lunch” — I was hoping they’d at least ask to Venmo me half as a kind gesture. Following lunch we grabbed dessert. I was hoping they’d offer to cover dessert since I covered lunch but it didn’t happen.

I am fine w/ paying but I was hoping the gesture would at least be presented… am I crazy?

Any chance of meeting smo serious on Tinder? I know it's mostly a hookup site, but have you met any exceptions?

26/F Toronto, Indian, dangerously independent
Bored of insecure men on dating apps 🤷🏽‍♀️☺️

Any desi f looking for a white knight to save her from an arranged marriage?

Hooked up with a guy I really like in Montreal, too bad I live in the States :(

I’m 29 and only now realized I shouldn’t go on dates if I’m still bitter about an ex

I feel like I wouldn't get many tips as a server because I'm a guy, is this really true or am I just making it up?

Haven’t done the dating thing in a while so need advice! (F here) Met a guy at a party on Sat, followed each other on insta, then I dm’ed him my number saying “lmk if you want to get drinks sometime”. He then texts me and says something along the lines of “yeah let’s do it” but doesn’t offer any concrete plan. Does this mean he’s not super into it? Or am I overreacting and I should initiate the plan? I initiated the insta follow and the dm so I feel like it’s his turn…?

My confession is that as a young guy, I want us to go back to the office so I can meet driven, career minded, attractive women. So tired of being catfished and all the other BS on dating apps.

Edit: to clarify, I don't mean hitting on women at work. I would just like to meet quality women, and I don't go partying or to bars. It's very hard as someone in their 20s coming out of a pandemic to meet people.

What are the best dating apps back home in India? In places like Bangalore.

if youve been talking to someone for 3 months and u catch them in a lie by stalking their friend on IG, should you call them out or is that too crazy

Men- if you text a girl you “like” but have never asked out on a date that you missed her and she responds “you could ask me out on a date”. How would you respond?

M 🐠 here. I work in finance and my job is so technical and intense I'm attracted to women who are airheady and ditsy

Not sure if this is a good thing

Any single F looking to get dinner or drinks today evening? 35 M here.

What exactly counts as ghosting . ?
You go on a date spend quality time , you have some intimate moments and the next thing the guy does is unmatch you on the app without sending a text.
Does this count as ghosting ?
Is expecting a text from other person saying " this is not what he is looking for " is too much to ask ?
This kind of behaviour puts other person on the self doubt mode.

Is there any way to get around the coinbase fee when buying crypto?

Why does the purchase agreement call for a FIRPTA when no real estate is being purchased?

Trying to convince my husband to cut my hair 🤣 Any suggestions to change his mind?

Anyone else decide to get a quarantine puppy? Post a picture of your new puppy that you brought home since WFH started!

Do background check companies verify your gpa with your school or do they just verify that you actually went to the school?

Does your firm let you take 28-30 December off? Many of my team members won’t be working those days and I decided last minute that I’d like to travel somewhere between Christmas and the New Year.

Have interviews set up at FAANG co and getting good signals, for a position that was posted widely (all across US) but not remote. Haven’t broached the subject of location yet. Would you (1) early on clearly state that you’re not open to relocation but that you would be open to visiting a big office once or twice a month; (2) not say anything now and wait to get an offer and ask for an exemption; or (3) something else?

I’m seeing lots of posts about really bad losses. If you trade you’re going to lose money - hopefully not all the time, but many positions will be mistakes. But you need a process to find ideas and manage positions. Two books you should read are “The New Trading for a Livinng” and “The Laws of Trading.” Both look at psychology, process, and risk in different ways that can help you work out your own process. The next 18 months will be much harder than the last 18 - time to start learning.

Hey Fishes,
Have an offer from HCL for Cisco at Bangalore location as a Technical Specialist.
Can anyone share his/her experience on that?
Like how is the work, wl balance.
Also, can we ask for a transfer to the preferred location if required?

Is LTI asking people to resign after being on bench for 3 months?

Does consultant specialist come under AVP role in hsbc technology?

Anyone up for chat😔😔 Feeling low...

29F, Texas. Willing to relocate to anywhere in usa or Canada. Seeking someone mature, stable, family oriented. Open to chatting to see if its a mutual match.

Does anyone have experience moving to PE? Would love to pick your brain for some advice! For context, I have 2 YoE in LS consulting post PhD

What are people's deciding factors between working for a Reseller vs Vendor?

Anyone here work with College Board? SAT School Day ordering in particular?

Big 4 : How would you evaluate this offer in consulting : 170 k, HCOL, 9 yoe, Manager in HCOL?

Any 🐠es interested in having a meet up this month?

35 Male,
I love to work hard but make time for play. Currently in the Air National Guard. I am thinking of starting my company one day.

Going to the Flying Cock today at 1:30 with a group of friends (early and mid-30s females) for bottomless brunch and 🏈. Boys, come meet us! 

Any fish going out in the east village tonight? Mid 30s?

Has anyone met anyone from this bowl?

Soooo lykeee...when do we stop talking about ourselves and start some sort of informal NYC professionals hangout?

What’s everyone up to today?

This bowl is slowwww. Is there anyone that wants to spice it up and do something fun?

Any female fish want to go to the rangers game tomorrow night? FYI I am a penguins fan.

I'm 40F. Any point to my being in this bowl? Not being facetious, just see a lot of chat here and in the WhatsApp group about how the people in their early 30s are old, so don't want to waste my or anyone else's time...

Anyone wanna come over? Brookyn

34F, currently in BK, moving to Jersey City by August 👩🏾‍💻

What if we turn this into a 50/50 ratio event (say max 12 people with sign ups in a google sheet) instead of just sliding in DMs? 🤔🫥

27, male looking for a doodle mommy ☺️

Looking for a female date to go to bemelmans bar tonight
I am a 35M Brit Indian. I have only 2 abs and great sense of humor. Also I’m only 5”5. Lord blessed me with superior quant skills for the lack of vertical reach. Thank you.

Anyone wanna come over? Brooklyn

Whose up to watch the Euro finals tomorrow at a bar??? 32M here and relatively new to Manhattan

Ladies what are the best apps to find a one night stand with a normal guy?

Plans fell through for this weekend. Any female fish want to hang out and grab dinner and drinks