What do your finance setup look like after marriage? Do you keep individual, joint accounts, a combination? How do you allocate your income to different accounts/ priorities?

We had separate finances due to operating in different countries. I’ve now fully relocated to where he lives and it’s time we have these conversations but curious what other women are doing with their partners!

Any other strategists have their spouse, lover, partner tell you “you just like to argue” ?

My view is while I like to debate I don’t like to argue (the later being infused with negative emotion/pain)

Ya’ll have similar struggles?

Getting reaaal tired of pressure from family to get married and have kids when I have enough to worry about at work. I feel like in 2022 we shouldn't have to deal with this. crap. I don't get a party for getting a promotion but when someone in the family has their 5th kid it's all anyone can talk about.

Men, how do you make yourself feel sexy and successful?

I feel like, I've dependend on my partners to validate me in those ways. But that makes me insecure & dependent on them. They loved me but idk if they "wanted/desired" me.

To feel sexy, I'm working on losing weight and then building muscle, but that'll take time and fade away with age anyway.

To feel successful, I mean... I have an OK career and savings, but I just don't identify either as success.

Maybe, I just want to feel desired.

I am generally uncomfortable when I’m around my mother-in-law’s husband.

While he is overall a decent guy, his anger issues, yelling at his wife for the slightest issue, and insulting nature makes me uncomfortable and triggers my own anger due to his blatant disrespect for just about everyone around him.

My mother-in-law says he’s worked on things, but it’s been 10 years of this and I’m not sure I want such behavior around my wife and our kids since we’re trying to conceive soon (cont).

Is it wise decision to invest more than 3% in PPP. Now a days cgi share price is growing rapidly.

Any thought on individual contribution(more than 3%)

# CGI

Partners, how have you managed to balance the work, obviously substantial, and your family? I see many with stay-home SO, but wondering if it is possible to prioritize family if your SO has a demanding career

I am trying to justify house buying in HCOL city. The house cost is minimum 1.4m .monthly mortgage would be at least 7k(with just around 2k principal) rest goes to either int,tax. Not to mention regular house maintenance. How is it better than 3.5k rental. I understand appreciation and own house independence. But I am just trying to make numbers work.

How do you guys feel about US people earning so much more…?

Dating my bf for about 6 months and he’s best friends with his mom and tells her everything. He even told his mom about the one time I tried a drug, before I met him. I thought I told him in confidence and now I found out he told her. How would you feel?

Accenture people - I’m new to this. 401k allocation recommendations? What should I look for? Heard the retirement year funds have high rates

What is your preferred online brokerage and why?
I like TDA’s tools and research. Vanguard is best for ETFs/funds but stock tools are nonexistent. Robinhood? Why? Thanks!

Thinking about moving from Seattle to San Diego, but don’t have any friends down there. Any advice for how to meet queer friends?

I received my fnf from Accenture today. I don't know why 18k as 'other perquisite' is mentioned in income tax computation sheet?

Should I be ashamed that I’m moving back in with my parents at 25 years old cause of corona? I’ve been feeling a lot of anxiety around housing

Hi Fishes/Seniors,
This will be the first time I will be in tax slab.
I have few queries can anyone please help me regarding this.
In ELSS mutual the total we can save save tax is 1.5lakh. Do we need to invest yearly 1.5 lakh yearly to save tax? I am planning to have a Sip of 5000 monthly for 3 years. So total money invested in 3 years will be around 60000 * 3 = 180000.
Will that be sufficient to save tax or Do I need to have a sip of 12000 per month to save tax.

Any suggestions for central NJ housing esp. when it comes to finding upcoming new construction single famiky? Feel like this market needs a correction given everything is 1.2 million or above

Realized my savings account interest rate is now higher than my mortgage rate. No way I pay that off early. Eat your heart out Dave.

Any book recommendations to gift my cousin sister? She studied (masters) psychology and is a trained classical dancer.

Seeking an expert in self guided/self directed Roth IRA investment and rules/regulations. Looking for a consultant who can quickly identify if there will be any red flags in this transaction (for my dad). Thank you!

What are people doing with their student loans now that interest is paused? Is it better to keep paying them off or to invest/save the money?

Can someone please tell me why Fridays are always the hardest?

I have resigned from EY GDS on the e-exit portal a few days back. What are the next steps that I need to do.
Also, when will I get a mail to submit my assets and for any other formalities.

Anyone have experience with trunk shows for shirts and suits?

I have the shoulder to waist ratio of a dorito (you can pick the orientation) and no off-the-rack or MTM brand fits me. Gonna try bespoke (the SEA tailors seem really great value).

How do you deal with working on a brand that you're new on and all the past work has been awful but you're forced to continue on with the look/feel/tone of?

Any openings for cloudera databricks ?

I joined Tiger Analytics 1 month back as Analytics Consultant but still have not been allocated to any project. How long does it generally take to get allocated ?

I didn't receive the credentials email yet from @Capgemini after 48hrs as well.
When can I expect it?

Can you apply for a per diem tax job besides your full time tax accountant job? Both are public

Hi Sharks, I have 2.5 years of work experience in ZS Associates in decision analytics, I have significant projects in data science but want to fully deep dive as a data scientist. Kindly refer in case of any openings. Thanks

Please recommend some good fiction books!

Does anyone honestly believe Biden will still debate Trump next week?

Does anyone know how is tech mahindra’s telefonica client
Have offers from techm dassault ststem and cognizant.

Favorite recent/current pharma campaigns? Either DTC or HCP. Looking for some inspiration!

Partners: Hey HR, we are short of resources and looking to hire a self starter candidate, with good analytical mindset, and should be a hardworker and should not hesitate to work long hours. Also forgot to mention, we are totally short of budget. But since the projects are high demanding, we need someone to get going.
HR: Hmmm... Challanging situation. Let me get back to you in 2 weeks
After 2 weeks...
HR: Happy to welcome, xxxx to the team. xxxx has joined the team as an Analyst

Hello to all b4 🐠 - what's your view on the cultural differences between b4 in Australia? Feel free to put down a ranking to your best knowledge, anecdotal or not. Thanks!

what are you go-to brands for work clothes?

Currently interviewing at JPMorgan in their CIB division for a associate operations role. Have met with 5 people for two different teams and another person for another team, all of which I believe are 3 total open positions for 3 different teams. Any insight on the interview process or how long it takes or any sort of idea to give me on what I could look for that might help me believe I might get an offer? Checked my online application again recently and still says “In Consideration”