Men, how do you make yourself feel sexy and successful?

I feel like, I've dependend on my partners to validate me in those ways. But that makes me insecure & dependent on them. They loved me but idk if they "wanted/desired" me.

To feel sexy, I'm working on losing weight and then building muscle, but that'll take time and fade away with age anyway.

To feel successful, I mean... I have an OK career and savings, but I just don't identify either as success.

Maybe, I just want to feel desired.

I finish at the gym around 645, cook and finish eating by 8. What do you guys do for the last 2-3 hours before bed? Would like to have a few beers or wine but I don’t drink during the week. Watching TV gets boring and I’m out of chores 😧 27 M

Why are sibling relationships so complicated? We live in the same city. 23M w 21M bro in same city. We’ve always clashed, got closer in 2016-2019, then in covid started fighting and not being close. 2021 summer we got into some bad fights where he said some hurtful things that made me kind of hold a grudge until our fight in September. 2022 we’ve gotten a lot closer and only minimally clashed but still even tho we share personal things sometimes and have more mutual respect, cont

22/F, fitness/health/travel junkie, Nashville. Slide in 😉

Does EY have anything to help you get connected with an au pair company?

I’ve noticed vaccine resistance among pet owners is growing and I’m starting to lose the will to educate people who are worried about “canine autism.” How hard do you try to inform the misinformed?

Been having trouble moving on since girlfriend ended relationship 3 weeks ago after 2+ years of dating. Before ending it she came over 3 weeks prior to basically give me a chance to work things out and we had a good discussion but then I went back into our routine and didn’t really fight for it or have serious follow up convos that we needed. Now I just have so many regrets that I let her go. I know we still love each other and left on “good” terms but can’t forgive myself for my lack of action.

What are some of your favorite workouts to do while on the road?

Has anyone talked to a therapist or professional about being unemployed? At this point I feel like it's making me depressed. Are there other unemployment support groups out there?

What consitutes good health benefits/health insurance. If you have "good" benefits, what are they?

Is getting back together with an ex always a bad idea?

Any tips for organizing a bedroom, closet, dresser & bathroom? My teen has IADHD, and low executive functioning. Her room looks like a land mine. Clean clothes are mixed in with dirty, her desk is a disaster, she won’t let go of clothes she’s outgrown, drawers are open with clothes hanging out. A therapist said to close her door if we don’t want to see it but it’s more than that. She needs this important life skill & I don’t know how to help. Easier to organize w/o her but that’s not a solution.

Best Co-living PG near Bagmane Tech Park Bangalore or in Whitefield?
Moving to Bangalore for 2 months with wife.

Can anyone recommend a good cosmetic Dentist in Chicago? Looking to get some veneers for a few top front teeth that keep chipping.

Any NYC 🐡 that would let me borrow their doggo for walks?! I am so missing my old guy, but can’t adopt a new one due to work ☹️

My kids were really upset with me when I told them that my job as an engineer did not mean that I drove trains for a living

How do you motivate yourself to exercise everyday?

Any tips on getting pregnant after having one miscarriage? Any supplements or things to think about?

Anyone have a tax professional they'd recommend in LA?

Can anyone give me an overview of what to expect working for a family office? Would this be a good career move if I have a CPA and am looking to break into financial services?

Do we have leave encashment policy in PWC at the end of every year.
If yes up to how many leaves we can encash?

What does the comp structure of level 14 look like?

Need to leave for Canada in roughly a month because of US visa expiry but worried about potential travel restrictions in Canada given the bad covid situation. Are there any provinces that are not as hard hit by covid? Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.

Need to recommend a hotel to my family who's visiting from the USA in a couple of weeks. They like to stay in local boutique type places and BnBs, not chains. Any suggestions?

Hi Fishes
Which one is better ? Accenture or FIS Global in terms of onsite opportunities ?
YOE:11 approx

How much time IQVIA takes in issuing offer letter from workday? Accepted offer 2 weeks back.

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Does google have office in Dubai? I am curious!

I was in an accident last week and I wanted to know if there would be any implications for internationals on OPT/work visas if we file a lawsuit.

What are the repercussions? Kindly help

I’m a Canadian citizen looking to move to the US for my MBA and then full time work. Would the immigration issues impact me? Getting scared from seeing all the stories on this bowl.

If it matters- born in India, living in Canada since I was 2 years old.

Any thoughts on an MBA vs MS Project Management. I was planning on doing an MBA but and MS Project Management seems like the better option now. I will be an international student and was planning on making a career shift into project management itself. I thought MBA would give me the best chance but I came across some good MS Project Management degrees. Also, I already hold a MS but in another field. Any thoughts?

How long we need to stay on the joining date at Wipro? Can i leave after 2 PM on joining day? What n all action will be required from our end? Can every action will be done by phone, if I am joining from phone?

How do people focus in the office? I'm a first year and I've been mostly wfh since I started and I'm super productive at home - my setup is comfortable, I rarely get interrupted, and I feel like I can stay really focused in my home office.

Our SAs started today, so the firm is making us come in more often. My office set up is so awkward, screens are too small, and I'm constantly getting interrupted. Not to mention the extra time it took to get ready and commute. How do people do this?

Can i resign HCL after 1 week of joining? How it will impact, Do they blacklist me? How many days i will get the reliving?

Does EY GDS give its employees access to Udemy courses?

What are the perks offers by PWC for SA roles other than monthly fixed salary

For those who are experiencing depression and those who aren’t: what gets you up in the morning?

I'm feeling incredibly anxious and honestly depressed right now because of work. I had already been feeling demotivated and wanting to leave but I was told on Monday that I was being out on probation for one year (I am not going into detail on this). And now my manager is pressing me about finding a new project role as I have been on the bench for more than a month, and one possible one may require travel. I just want to get out of my job now and hear back from the 10+ applications I have now.

Do any of you have days when you start getting rid of all of your stuff? I think of end of life ceremonies a lot, so when I see all my stuff, I get overwhelmed by it bigtime and want to sell it off.

How does everyone manage SAD during the winters. Feeling so down and not sure what are the best ways to cope.

Ahhhh I murdered myself the last two years for a promotion to the detriment of my mental and physical health, my friendships, and my marriage. Had full support from project and practice leadership. Did not get it. Why do we do this job?

I feel empty. Been on a solo project for the last few months, and I'm a quiet guy, but this+the environment is getting to be a lot. I'm at the client site 10-14 hours a day, remaining hours...

What would you do if you didn’t need money? I have a fair amount coming one day and don’t actually need to work to live a good life (middle / upper-middle class). I work because of this vague notion of “ambition” and because everyone I grew up around is highly competitive and hard driving. I just feel unhappy so often and am wondering what this is all leading to. Scared I’m wasting my life being unhappy / in turmoil cause it’s what my culture wants me to do.

I’ve been terribly unhappy with all that comes with the consulting lifestyle. How do I know if it’s the job or underlying depression and anxiety?

Today is my 23rd birthday and I had very few people say happy birthday today. I was still in daily contact with my ex (I know a mistake) and he snapped me but did not send me happy birthday (we were together 3yrs ). So I finally blocked him on everything for the first time. (I should’ve done it a long time ago for other reasons) With the pandemic and everything else going on I’m feeling hopeless and alone. 😓 is there anything to be happy about right now?

Do you think it’s possible for depression to just ‘go away’? All the triggers are still there but the depression isn’t?

In a new job and my manager saw through my impostor syndrome. He said it out loud that I need to work on my confidence and overcome my insecurity.
I constantly feel like I’m surrounded by people smarter than me and I doubt myself a lot. I’m scared everyone sees through my impostor syndrome and feel horrible about myself.

Doing my MBA apps and absolutely feel like shit. It's a lot of work and I've been circling on my essays and feeling like I don't have anything left to give.

I need to "sell" myself but I'm in a terrible place mentally and feel so drained.

How do I breakup with my therapist? I’ve yet to find a new one but I don’t feel like I gain anything from these appointments and I dread going and paying for the sessions

Hi does anyone have health anxiety while working out? Haven’t worked out since September and really scared of going back to the gym because I gained some weight and I become very panicky when my heart rate goes high. Anyone has any tips on how I can go back to the gym and go back to enjoying my workouts?

Got scheduled for a biopsy to check on some abnormalities. They said it’s most likely nothing serious. I’ve been in this weird thought spiral that if it’s cancer at least I won’t have to worry about work. That’s messed up. I hate that this work is always hanging over my head and always take priority over everything else. I am working with my therapist on setting boundaries but i think I’m resentful that we’re the ones that need to do this. The companies we work for will never do

Coworker has been prematurely rolled off of 4 projects, and still made it through the “layoffs”. It’s never happened to me, but I spend every waking moment paranoid that I’ll lose my job at any point..

Potentially at an all time low - personally, professionally and emotionally. I have to believe that life’s inflection points happen for a reason. There’s a bigger lesson for me around this corner...

Dad got laid off. Drinking got worse. Attempted assault on sis and mom. Had to put up in hotel. No clue on next steps (legal and personal). Project is complete shit show and SM is not getting it. Idk man...

This is super weird but I feel like I can’t relate easily to people. Hear me out - I moved and lived in different continents, countries every 5 years or so until now… I feel like I’m an outlier and my life is super different from anyone else’s. I have some friends I’ve met at each stage of my life, but it’s been temporary. I feel like I’m always going in a different direction than others. It makes it difficult to have a stable life and close friends..