“What number will actually make you happy?”

I was asked that recently by a friend who knows my salary and my ambition for more. After a bit of researching, I’ve decided that being in the top 1% is good enough for me. In my geography, that number is $350k.

So what’s yours?

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As a woman, I keep pushing higher for the principle. Never satisfied, but not chasing a number, I’m chasing a role. Currently at $450k TC in Tennessee.

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So when I did the research it also had a split of men and women in the 1% range. It found that 73% were men and 27% were women, so definitely appreciate the sentiment for pushing higher.

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I’m happy with $60k. Anything past that just gets saved.

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I am a child

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My number is pretty low, I just don’t want to work anymore. I want to pay off my mortgages. Rent them. Retire. Live in South America. 🏆

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We have $950K household income. Would be nice to double that, but it probably won’t make us that much happier.

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Exactly this. I make over $500k. The happiness doesn’t arrive from more money.

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Wow. I grew up in a LCOL and now live near a major city. TC for HH is $250k, which is more than I ever thought we’d make. It’s pretty comfortable, but not lavish. There’s still a ton of runway for future salary, but I’m enjoying my WLB atm. I lucked into a low stress job this year.

I don’t even know what my ideal number would be, but all the houses I like are 2M and I’d like to fully support a couple of kids through college.

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About $700k would be my desired amount.

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That sounds nice

Never be happy. If it’s 1b, should be 1.1b

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10M a month.

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Based on my family aspirations (3 Kids + Wife) I’d be good w/ $250k-$300k

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Is it possible for an average engineer to get to 1%?

I just googled top 1% salary for Texas and turns out it’s in the neighborhood of $650K.

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Of course, just run your own engineering firm

For a single person, $200k minimum for survival, $500k for comfort, $1MM for fantasy life. At $400k I’d be pretty happy.

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Where did you look to find that number? Places I’ve looked seemed to have household income by percentiles on a national level.

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Government source and it is a federal number, just outside the US

That's a really great question and something I'm still figuring out

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It’s a hard one I agree. After years of chasing money, I don’t think I’m at my final destination, BUT I do feel at a range where I can be comfortable and enjoy life a bit more so that I’m not losing those years that matter

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I'm happy now. $130k with retirement and kids college all on pace.

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Honestly, I would be happy with $500k annual - and I'm about half way. As a single person that would go a long way... As a couple I would hope for $500-1m annually to be comfortable.

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The more you make, the more taxes you pay…. Still better to make more money, you still end up with more after taxes..
You probably also have more tax write-offs as your net worth grows

Chasing a number seems kind of pointless, it keeps going up. I remember 6 figures being the top end when I was going up, now its very typical depending on location. Do whatever makes you happy, at the end of the day, money is just a tool that helps you live the life you want. Its also never enough, you can say 200k-1mil today and when you hit that number you want more, its human nature.

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Not me. I’ve made more and made less. All that matters is to be comfortable, pay the bills and live the life that matters, as someone said. I live for eternal purpose. Celebrities make millions and many are miserable.

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Enough money for a nice house in socal, a good car, and 2-3 nice vacations a year while building savings. Prob $500k. I want work life balance tho, achieving $1M+ isn’t worth much if you never get to enjoy it bc you’re always working

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There isn't a number that will make me "happy." I grew up leveling up in video games, I am always going to want to keep reaching that next stage. Money is part of that. But so is professional development. I can see myself feeling like "this is the company I want to retire from," but I can't ever see myself thinking, "this is the role I want to do and the paycheck I want to receive until I retire," at least not until or unless retirement is actually within a couple years' horizon.

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Here I am still trying to break six figures. I wonder what the goal will be after that.

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I’d rather have a higher title and be paid the same as I am.

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I always measured it by how much more I am making over how much my dad made. I had a poor but nice childhood. I am now at approx double his salary from the 00s if you factor in inflation. But everyday I struggle on whether it's worth it to be comfortable and mentally ill or happy and poor. Is the stress and depression worth the greed?

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Why are you stressed?

Under 150k or over 550k anywhere in between is getting screwed

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Because they are overworked and underpaid in that range. Better to be a partner doing less work than a manager or director and get paid 2-3x more or just be an administrative or junior employee with no responsibilities but fewer hours and less pay.

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