Who do you put as your beneficiary (after SO) if you don't want to have kids?

Guys need your suggestion here.

Please help me with my decision.

I am 32 divorced and I have decided to not marry again also i don't have any other other responsibilities /loans etc.

Currently earning 18 lpa and I am planning to buy a car which is worth 16 lakhs. Should I go ahead or should l lower my budget as per my current salary package

My daughter had tears streaming down here eyes this morning as she begged me not to go to work. I'm heartbroken. The weekend can't come soon enough.

I’m (early30s) about 8 months into a relationship with a 40m. Things are wonderful in every aspect, but he is absolutely atrocious with his finances. I felt it becoming an issue about two months ago. He forgets about auto payments and just generally doesn’t care. I sat down with him and looked at everything and even after talking it out he still continues to stress and it’s now causing me stress. I had a final discussion with him today about it and he went on abt how love isn’t enough for me…

Anyone have a recommended tax person in Chicago?

Has anyone been through a situation that you were in a terrible relationship ( stress,anger, fights, swears, physical abuse, ego clashes) and how did you resolve it? Some might have worked on and stayed in the relationship and some might have broken up. I am looking for answers from both sides. How did you stay/work on it and how did you break up and move on? Me and my partner have strong feelings for eachother and are almost inseparable despite going through so much.

Does anyone have any tips to maximize miles when getting married? We currently only have one card that is the same. Does it make sense to add her to all of my other cards as an authorized user? Any tips appreciated

My sons friend is looking to get into real estate . He is a junior at Indiana University. Looking for recommendations.

Has the overturning of Roe v. Wade significantly impacted anyone's relationships? I lost two friends who were pro-life and on the verge of losing another. Wondering if I'm being too rigid in my perspective or if this is normal in Texas

Taking family trip to Chicago mid-September. Any family friendly recs good for an 18 month toddler (things to do, non fancy lunch spots, etc)? Also thinking residence inn downtown for space. Others?

When did you know you were falling out of love with your partner? Did you fix it, or break things off and why?

In search of stories to hopefully understand a phase in my own long term relationship.

How open are mental health discussions in your families? Whether it be talking about your struggles or suggesting therapy to family members? Anyone done it successfully and mind sharing ideas here?

I have an estranged relationship with my sister. I haven’t had a relationship with her in 13+ years, and haven’t even seen her in about 5 years. We had a really bad falling out and I never really carried for her as a person. But for some reason I feel an immense guilt for not wanting a relationship, simply because of this convoluted idea of family and sticking together no matter what. Anyone else have this issue? How do I go about making peace with someone I don’t want nothing to do with?

Everyone making a big deal about Trumps taxes and couldn't give two fucks about Hillary's paid speeches to Wall Street. I want to know what she said to these banks. #releasethetranscripts

I just pulled a muscle in my neck from crying at 3 in the afternoon on a random Wednesday

Anyone find it difficult to balance family/friends when you get a chance to squeeze in a weekend at home? I feel like I'm losing touch with a lot of my friends, but still...family first, right?

Looking at real estate vs stock market returns. How much ROI have you seen your real estate investments yield over the years on average? I know there are so many factors. Just trying to see if RE is worth it given that I will lock in a large amount if cash.

How to know the GGID for checking final settlement payslip

Anyone have experience with the Financial Advisors from Personal Capital? How was your experience?

Looking for advice to safely invest Escrow portion of my mortgage, since I was able to stop paying from Escrowz starting this month.

As you know, this cannot be risk in stock market, what are safe options

Starting to get into investing and generally a pretty risk averse person so not out here trying to make fast money. What mediums do people generally use to invest? Think I’m too easily stressed to pick individual stocks, but happy to take suggestions for platforms for both. TIA!

For the ladies: If you’re going on dates with a 33 y/o man with a good job, and if the date goes well and you go back to his place, would you “judge” if he has a roommate?

I am a personal injury attorney making 79k with ability to keep 40% of anything I settle, bonuses for originating work for the firm. I am 1.5 years into practicing as a Plaintiffs PI attorney - I have a review coming up - suggestions on what I should ask for as a raise. I’ve settled a couple cases and working on a third settlement. I’m new to the practice area but cannot get a read on whether a raise is coming at review - nothing but positive feedback from both partners I work with, but doesn’t

Looking for job change, 15+ years of experience in .Net/C#/Azure. Good DSA/Designing.
Currently serving Notice period, and can join in 50 days.
Preferred location Hyderabad. Product companies preferred as service based might not be able to match current offer (~40).

Thanks in advance.

What happens when you don’t receive any decision before October 1st from USCIS? My H1 is selected in the lottery but there has been no response at all after it. I am on valid F1 btw

Any insider knowledge of EY modifying the frequent traveler program policy now that most travel will be reduced?

I and two other workers were offered the same position at the same time. I was offered 23 an hour while the other was offered 24. Can I renegotiate?

Hi everyone - I received an offer from Wayfair recently, for a Senior Manager role based in Boston. Any recommendations on where to negotiate / how much?

Details:
- $160K Base
- 1,200 RSUs over 4 years
1yr vesting with quarterly clip thereafter
Valued at $144K over 4y using today's stock price of $120 = $36K/y
- Signing bonus of ~$10K (TBD)
- Relocation payout of ~$10K (TBD)

Thanks in advance!

Any PgM level 4 or 5 here?

Hi Guys, please give 11 likes to enable DM, Thanks in advance.😊

A reminder to all: we are going through very difficult times. Please help someone who has gotten laid off if you can!

What is the band for SE1 & SE2 in Amex ??

How open are mental health discussions in your families? Whether it be talking about your struggles or suggesting therapy to family members? Anyone done it successfully and mind sharing ideas here?

I became current for AOS in October and submitted all my documentation, but still no word from EY Law on submitting it. I don't know what to do 🥺

Does anyone know how Accenture job levels equate to IBM bands? Is a level 6 at Accenture the equivalent of a band 10 at IBM? *asking for myself

Hey 🐠, what are your recommendations of books, articles, or practice tips to improve communication, both verbal and written? Want to be stronger at running meetings, pitching ideas, writing (cont’d)

Who else is working Monday-Thursday this week?

I’m interviewing for another consulting role and I’m close to moving from 70 to 120. Prayers are appreciated.

Also I’m not gonna tell where so I can get the job 😆

Going to Boston this weekend. Went to school there 4 years ago so I know most of the classics but are there any new places that are worth checking out

🐠 & 🦈
Curious to hear what cars everyone drives.

Audi S5 here & a Cayenne GTS on the way. Many clients have given props to the S5

Just got a bidet. I feel so alive

At a career crossroads. Post MBA, probably will make Manager in next year or two. Can go back to industry in a local office leadership role with a pay bump OR stay on path to Manager. Industry role could potentially turn into something bigger down the road (regional or potentially executive leadership). Or I stay in consulting and the work I’m doing is project management. Not the “consulting” I signed up for.

When did you put company email on your personal phone? First year? Second year?

Thoughts on Canadian budget? $354 B deficit in FY-20, additional $154 B deficit in FY-21, additional $60 B deficit in FY-22!! High time to stop partying using debts?

Anyone ever considered / has quit and taken a fairly chill, (comparatively) low payed job? I have no debt, $150k in savings. I’d be pretty happy, with a chill 9-5, get a dog, good home. Have time to work out, cook, hike, read, travel (on a stricter budget) and enjoy life. What am I missing? Is this naive?

A first for me, after 1.6 million miles. Thankful for a delay. The delay on the connector saved me a night at ord Hilton after the ludicrous delay on the first leg.t. Truly grateful united

Do you "work" other than transition or KT after you are told you're being laid off? Just curious what level of work I should provide til my last day.

Ugh the TSA Pre scanner lady at AUS delta checkpoint is AWFUL. Go through the regular line instead. She is pulling every single laptop bag today... And there's only one guy to check them.

Looking for some book recommendations :)

Anyone know of boutiques that do innovation work? Anything from starting up new business/services/products, accelerators and incubator models, startup partnerships/investment, Digi talent, etc.

Team - what is the leading practice for a remote work plan with team / client?

How do you manage people when you have no idea how to manage people?
I don’t want to be an overbearing micromanager but I don’t want to be pushover either

I know Mck is the top for strategy, but in terms of digital/design in top consulting firms which do you think is better? Mckinsey digital or deloitte digital? (Or another..?)