With everything that's going on with the collapse of Afghanistan, the delta variant causing more sickness and death, wild fires out west, family deaths, and too much work, I just want to give up. It feels like the end of the world is near, and I don't want to be stuck working when it does end. Does anyone else feel like this currently? Rationally I know that is probably not the case, just mentally over it!

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Highly recommend a loving kindness meditation break when the overwhelm hits. If you Google that phrase there are many free short guided meditations to simply offer yourself some gentle kindness followed by sending compassion to the many others whose suffering grieves us. Wishing you all peace.

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I am feeling it, just pinged my brother and he is too. It's a collective depression, or at least grief and exhaustion. Sending you and all of humanity loving kindness and compassion.

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Thanks for the words of encouragement, I am glad to know that I am not alone having these feelings but at the same time sad that you are also have these negative feelings.

Many of us are feeling the same way . Hang in there folks

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I feel this, OP 😔

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It has been a growing sense of doom and regret for me.

Same, someone on a team I work with passed away this past weekend (reason unknown). I haven’t been able to work at all. We are all at the end of our ropes.

Sorry for your loss SC1.

Same OP

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