With the holidays fast approaching, I can't help but wonder why I've pigeonholed myself into a career path that keeps me away from family at crazy hours and days. I miss birthdays, holidays; you name it. Three years in, I can see why divorce rates are so damned high.

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I am so sorry you're experiencing this. Maybe for next year you could ask for the holidays off since you've worked holidays before!

Yeah, I used to wonder why so many cops got divorced and I can now see it as well. I have also missed some important family events, but I make sure to make up for lost time afterwards.

Whatever you do, try your best to not let your career get in between you and your spouse. No relationship should end over a job.

I am so happy that my wife is also in the force. She understand that I can't just miss work, and we work together to ensure at least a couple days together as a family throughout the week.

There's always next year, friend. It's not ideal to miss the holidays with your fam but it duty calls, you answer.

I know the feeling. The holidays can be hard when you have to work instead of spending time with your loved ones. Videocalls work for me, I may not be physically present, but at least I am there somehow!

Piece of advice: finding a balance between your job and personal life is essential, so you don't miss out on special moments with your family.

I think this is also an important reminder to take advantage of our time with family to create meaningful moments and lasting memories.

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